Being hardly neglected by society

Hello guys,I have a serious problem that I want to share for discussion:
I'm being hardly neglected by society,as the title says,and by both genders but by women mostly...
I've never realized that till I made a social experience by my own and it was my idea:
For the first time,in high school,I standed alone admitting it to see if anyone approaches me by his will and choice ,I standed there couple hours even my school mates did not even approach me ,so,I realized that for me especially,they only talk to me only when I do first ,I swear to you no one ever approached me by his choice,so as,I don't have real friends ,I only have a few guys who enjoy my jokes and they sit with me rarely ,in most of the time,I tell them plz sit next to me...to make it real and TBH,I'm a normal guy by all criterias such as appearance behavior and anything else.i'm even considered handsome while I don't even compliment myself ,so as,every human I met told me that I'm so intelligent ,TBH,I never care about these compliments .I only need someone out of my family who really cares about me ,I'm now 18 years old ,I've never had a girlfriend or even a simple contact with girls because they don't handle me for an absolute weird reason,FUckk it,boys even tell me sometimes I'm handsome and cute and girls never told me even bye or hello ,i just feel so lonely since years ,no girl ever approached or interacted with me by her own ..in my ordinary days,I sit alone in class but I keep calling them to sit nearby ,every year ,my school class gets divised by two automatically and mates are couples and I'm the one who's the rest of the division operation ,I don't get a simple friend or a girlfriend,I only get boy mates who care about me 20% but never a girl..thank u god for making me able to express my feelings so as blame and complain about "the good guy" status in society...ty for reading :)

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  • You don't sound normal, so don't think that you are.

    You sound extremely lonely and seem to be suffering from a fear from being alone, that in itself can give you a sort of desperate vibe and people don't like that.

    Furthermore don't call yourself a good guy like that. It's cringey.

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    • Yeah TBH I had a heavy depression in recent years,i have BPD :/ ,it's actually so enough as a mental disease ,it decreases my self-confidence by the time

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      • Just don't try to push yourself too much of seem desperate alright? I know it's hard.

        Don't forget though, it's just highschool.

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  • you sound like that weird autist guy that sits at the back of the class and is creepy as fuck especially when around girls

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  • People with BPD can be difficult to interact with so maybe that’s why you’re having social difficulty. Are you in therapy?

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  • You're too emotional. Guys arent supposed to be all up in their feelings like you are. Maybe girls can sense that and its turning them off.

    Btw no one walks up to me to talk either (although im a big ugly beast). Thats perfectly normal. Just focus more on being fun to be around. If you arent super charismatic do funny shit. Maybe crash the football game by streaking. You'll be a legend.

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  • We all can't be mister popular. Every school has the loners, in this instant it happens to be you. You are the only one whom can change it. How you see yourself is everything!

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