I was raped too, and I feel for your friend deeply, so forgive me because I will be blunt:
I feel so bad for your friend. The last thing she needs is her friend giving up on her(not implying that I think you would though.) I think you should try to get her some help. That rape that she wrote, the fact that you read it, don't be mad at her. This is normal for someone that went through that. I remember in junior high I would blurt it to all of my friend and anyone who would listen. Even now I do it on Facebook because there is always someone who will listen. It's her way right now of not holding things in. But she is not okay, I can tell that. Most friends will pull away if you try to push them to get help, but how much do you really love her as a friend? Worst outcome --> Would you rather she be pissed at you for a very long time but be getting the help she needs?
Being forced to retell your friends rape to a stranger?
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I was raped too, and I feel for your friend deeply, so forgive me because I will be blunt:
I feel so bad for your friend. The last thing she needs is her friend giving up on her(not implying that I think you would though.) I think you should try to get her some help. That rape that she wrote, the fact that you read it, don't be mad at her. This is normal for someone that went through that. I remember in junior high I would blurt it to all of my friend and anyone who would listen. Even now I do it on Facebook because there is always someone who will listen. It's her way right now of not holding things in. But she is not okay, I can tell that. Most friends will pull away if you try to push them to get help, but how much do you really love her as a friend? Worst outcome --> Would you rather she be pissed at you for a very long time but be getting the help she needs?