Why do you only care about being judged as 'right' all the time, either with regard to your colleague, or with regard to upvotes or downvotes? And why so vehemently, like someone just did something outrageous? Why can't you just evaluate other people's negative judgment of you as either potentially accurate or potentially not, and call yourself into question if necessary to see if there's something you need to change? Why is it impossible, outrageous even, for you to EVER be wrong? What's the matter with you?
Your being apparently 'allergic' to the mere suggestion that you could be wrong, makes you vulnerable - do you know that? Much like you with this co-worker, this trait of yours makes other people tempted to wind you up ;-). And for that feeling, that yen, to wind you up that I feel in myself sometimes when I try to talk to you (however wrong and hypocritical it would be of me to act on it), I think I might know which user you are.
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Why do you only care about being judged as 'right' all the time, either with regard to your colleague, or with regard to upvotes or downvotes? And why so vehemently, like someone just did something outrageous? Why can't you just evaluate other people's negative judgment of you as either potentially accurate or potentially not, and call yourself into question if necessary to see if there's something you need to change? Why is it impossible, outrageous even, for you to EVER be wrong? What's the matter with you?
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Your being apparently 'allergic' to the mere suggestion that you could be wrong, makes you vulnerable - do you know that? Much like you with this co-worker, this trait of yours makes other people tempted to wind you up ;-). And for that feeling, that yen, to wind you up that I feel in myself sometimes when I try to talk to you (however wrong and hypocritical it would be of me to act on it), I think I might know which user you are.
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I dont know if you really know, who do you think i am and why would you want to wind me up then?