Ooooh yay, I can be the first male to give my five cents on this. Yes supporting my sex! Well not in this case:
I would like to believe that his failure to give your backrubs is just due to ignorance. You said you spoke to him about it once, a while ago, so let him know again that it matters to you. Communicate with him instead of just stopping the back rubs in the hopes that he will get the message. I know I personally have a tendency to forget things or issues all the time unless I'm reminded but I'm not your boyfriend (that would be weird on many levels...). You say he's the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with - don't let him off the hook but make sure he knows he's on the hook to begin with. He might not even think its a big deal.
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Ooooh yay, I can be the first male to give my five cents on this. Yes supporting my sex! Well not in this case:
I would like to believe that his failure to give your backrubs is just due to ignorance. You said you spoke to him about it once, a while ago, so let him know again that it matters to you. Communicate with him instead of just stopping the back rubs in the hopes that he will get the message. I know I personally have a tendency to forget things or issues all the time unless I'm reminded but I'm not your boyfriend (that would be weird on many levels...). You say he's the guy you want to spend the rest of your life with - don't let him off the hook but make sure he knows he's on the hook to begin with. He might not even think its a big deal.
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I could see that being a problem too...
And I think that communication is always the best way to go.
Thanks for the support! :D
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You are so on top of it with the replies and I'm therefore convinced you may be one of the best OPs ever. Let us know how it goes!