My ex-boyfriend was like yours. He used to massage me all the time and I would gently scratch him arms and head (which he loooved). But after like 5 months of our 8 month relationship he slowed down a lot and eventually stopped. I would ask him to massage me and he'd say "But I don't want to massage you" :( The sex eventually stopped too and I had to bail. I don't want to be with a selfish guy who just always asks me to do stuff for him but then doesn't want to give me the same back.
Yeah, I can say that his favorite thing is when I scratch his head and arms too! (Haha)
I did talk to him about that after I made this story thing, and he did say that's just because we've both been a lot more busy this semester (which we have), and because we see each other so much more now, he doesn't really feel like he has to.
I think that maybe it's one of those things where you just kind of take a relationship for granted because you see the other person all the time. This is the first time I've been with someone like this, so I could see that...
The comments are helping me though, and I'm starting to see this a little better now.
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My ex-boyfriend was like yours. He used to massage me all the time and I would gently scratch him arms and head (which he loooved). But after like 5 months of our 8 month relationship he slowed down a lot and eventually stopped. I would ask him to massage me and he'd say "But I don't want to massage you" :( The sex eventually stopped too and I had to bail. I don't want to be with a selfish guy who just always asks me to do stuff for him but then doesn't want to give me the same back.
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Yeah, I can say that his favorite thing is when I scratch his head and arms too! (Haha)
I did talk to him about that after I made this story thing, and he did say that's just because we've both been a lot more busy this semester (which we have), and because we see each other so much more now, he doesn't really feel like he has to.
I think that maybe it's one of those things where you just kind of take a relationship for granted because you see the other person all the time. This is the first time I've been with someone like this, so I could see that...
The comments are helping me though, and I'm starting to see this a little better now.
Thank you!