But if he reveals his personality and the girl he likes does not like it, doesn't he have a valid reason for his so called insecurity?
You tell him to show his color to her, but she does not like that color. Now he has knowledge. He knows this girl and other girls that he wants will not like his color.
But those men whom girls like have no reason to be insecure. They have not felt insecurity because they know who they are and they know what other people like and how other people think. They have frequently tested their color to people and most are in favor of their color. Even though some are not in favor, he will not be insecure because he knows that in the past he has passed the test. He has proven to himself that girls like him.
You act like if he is insecure then his view is distorted. His view is not distorted, he is thinking clear. This feeling does not just pop up out of no where. There is an origin.
Very well put, and very accurate I like how you phrased it with the word "color", however I did not say his view is distorted, all I did was say what it was. And, its a common thing to be insecure with the oppisite sex, and its only through trial and errror that people learn how much color to show, and what kinds of people will appericate that color, we learn what color other people are. And, unless you are a total freaked out person, most likely you will find a person who will match your color to some degree or another.
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But if he reveals his personality and the girl he likes does not like it, doesn't he have a valid reason for his so called insecurity?
You tell him to show his color to her, but she does not like that color. Now he has knowledge. He knows this girl and other girls that he wants will not like his color.
But those men whom girls like have no reason to be insecure. They have not felt insecurity because they know who they are and they know what other people like and how other people think. They have frequently tested their color to people and most are in favor of their color. Even though some are not in favor, he will not be insecure because he knows that in the past he has passed the test. He has proven to himself that girls like him.
You act like if he is insecure then his view is distorted. His view is not distorted, he is thinking clear. This feeling does not just pop up out of no where. There is an origin.
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Very well put, and very accurate I like how you phrased it with the word "color", however I did not say his view is distorted, all I did was say what it was. And, its a common thing to be insecure with the oppisite sex, and its only through trial and errror that people learn how much color to show, and what kinds of people will appericate that color, we learn what color other people are. And, unless you are a total freaked out person, most likely you will find a person who will match your color to some degree or another.