Average time for women orgasim?

How long does women take until orgasim? My wife takes more than 40 minutes of foreplay (licking, riping, etc.) Is this normal?

0-5 minutes 7
5-10 minutes 23
15-30 minutes 21
30-60 minutes 5
More than 1 hour 2
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  • shuggy-chan

    About 0.3 seconds after i say “omelette du fromage”

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    • RoseIsabella

      https://youtu.be/8nW3-9gdjYA

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      • Indigo1

        https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OCp_G6J0m6g

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        • RoseIsabella

          I have eaten a Milk-Bone, or two in my early days, and dog biscuits really aren't so bad. That guy is lucky to have such a good doggie dog.

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  • Indigo1

    A lot of woman are different with this in my experience.
    I've dated girls who I could always make orgasm with out too many extra efforts.
    Ive dated a few girls who needed a decent go around with warming up.
    and I dated one woman who had a really hard time reaching orgasm at all even on her own efforts with masturbation. We tried lots of different things, and it always took ALOT of effort from me to get her off, i succeeded sometimes but only cause I'm a champ lol ;) it wasn't for the faint hearted ill say that lol

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  • SwickDinging

    Every woman is different. It also depends on the situation - I can come in under a minute on occasion, but I've also been known to take closer to an hour. My average time with my husband is probably about 10-15 mins for my first one, and then any subsequent orgasms will follow on easily in 5 mins or less.

    Also you tend to find these things speed up with age. So a woman who took 40 mins in her 20s will probably get quicker into her 30s and 40s - assuming she has a competent lover who listens to her wants. I know for me I rarely had orgasms at all when I first started having sex, they were more common but took a while in my 20s, but by the time I hit my 30s they were easy to come by (pun intended. Hahaha.) It's all just gone from strength to strength since then.

    One piece of advice (that you probably already know anyway) - don't ever let her know that you think she takes a while. Guaranteed passion-killer for any woman. She probably already thinks she takes a while and the more she thinks that the longer it will take her.

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  • NYNY10

    my wife cums with her vibrator in about 1 min...no joke.

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  • Lonelywitch

    By myself in under 10mins
    When I was fingering a girl the other day it took her like 10mins as well

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  • redfastlad

    If i fuck her arse she comes within 5 mins

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  • kersery

    it typically doesn't take me very long if i'm getting myself off. when i'm really horny, it can take 10 minutes. when i'm not though, it can take up to an hour or longer.

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  • Bumfuzzle

    I get woman to orgasm just by looking at them

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  • trexagireve

    There is no option for 10-15 minutes, so I vote for 12.7 minutes!!

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  • My root uses a vibrator almost every time, with me in her and that vibrating her clit she cums within minutes

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  • JustinAnderson

    My GF also takes so much long time . You have to prolong foreplay

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  • Handyman

    She may have had a few that you did not notice...

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    • Doesnormalmatter

      Starting from when? Foreplay plays a big role but I still asusume you mean from start of intercourse. If so, then I would say 10 to 30 minutes is a good range. Can vary a lot tho.

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      • Boojum

        I agree with the 10-30 minute range and that it can vary a lot.

        However, it is a fact that the relative positions of the clitoris and vagina for the majority of women means that the clitoris just doesn't get enough consistent stimulation from PIV thrusting to allow an orgasm to happen.

        It does work for some women, and some women love the feeling of penetration and thrusting even if they don't come. Position can make a big difference, and sometimes the way the couple fit together and move does provide sufficient clitoral stimulation. But for some women, it just ain't gonna happen during PIV sex, no matter how long the guy thrusts.

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        • Doesnormalmatter

          I know, but if it is gonna happen, 10 to 30 is the best range. Usually sex isn't that straight forward though. If your nice and want her to have an O, you should stimulate more than just her vag. Its a complicated question.

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  • Boojum

    The research I've read suggests the average is fifteen or twenty minutes from a cold start. I know from experience that if the conditions are just right for some women it can take much less than that. And of course there are unfortunately a lot of women who never make it for various reasons.

    It seems your wife takes longer than average, but so what? Do you charge by the minute?

    She is how she is and she shouldn't be criticised for that, but maybe there are things you could be doing better, and I don't only mean in terms of technique.

    Maybe there's something about how and when you have sex that make it difficult for her to relax and get into the experience; context generally matters a lot more to women than it does to men. Maybe you're giving signals that you find the whole process too lengthy and tedious, and that's being counterproductive. Maybe the two of you are in a rut, and you need to talk to her about how you might make things better for her.

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  • To long.

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  • AMERICANsavage

    What you do is get her a "The Vibrating Wand". Get the brand name one its on amazon for like 60 bucks. Throw that puppy on her clit and smack her around a bit. She'll be squeeling like a pig in no time.

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    • Ellenna

      Smack her around a bit? I pity any woman involved with you

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      • AMERICANsavage

        Just cause youre not into it doesnt mean other women arent. Mine wants the gag ball in or her panties in her mouth. Then she wants the paddle😂🤣

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        • Ellenna

          I didn't say I wasn't into it if it's consensual, but you weren't talking about your own partner, you were suggesting this treatment for someone else

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          • AMERICANsavage

            Awww.

            I always slap girls around tho. If shes new I build up to it tho. I wont face slap on the first fuck. Probably hold her arms down first and see how she reacts.

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