The results of this poll so far indicate that if guys think there is a correlation between horniness and attractiveness, they tend to think that less attractive women are hornier. This supposed link seems to me to be complete nonsense. They may be easier to get but it is not because they are hornier. Even if such a woman is not into sex, she has to compromise more because it is more difficult for her to get a partner in comparison with more attractive women. However, less resistance doesn't equal horniness. Another factor is that if they want to get and keep a partner they have to try more which means that even if they are inclined to lay there and do nothing during sex based on the level of their sexual desire, they have to try more and do something or create the impression they enjoy sex to attract the guy. All in all, although I agree that it may be easier for a guy to go "hogging" instead of trying for sex with an attractive woman, I don't think it is because less attractive women are hornier than more attractive ones.
However, this issue is even more complex than I suggested above because a woman's self-esteem may play an important role in this regard. It means that if a woman who is not very attractive has a high self-esteem and thinks she is attractive she can behave as a princess reducing possible "benefits" stemming from her poor attractiveness to zero. On the other hand an attractive woman with low self-esteem may be sexually more open and try more than an equally attractive woman with high self-esteeem.
Add paragraph 1) "A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush." Especially if there is a high probability that the two in the bush will become transformed into dead fish as soon as they get from the bush into the bed.
Add paragraph 2) Fully agreed. Personally, I find high self-esteem, or even healthy self-esteem or self-confidence quite repulsive. Low self-esteem is very sexy in my deviant and self-loathing eyes. "Birds of a feather flock together."
(...for the time being that´s all I have to say about birds...:)
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The results of this poll so far indicate that if guys think there is a correlation between horniness and attractiveness, they tend to think that less attractive women are hornier. This supposed link seems to me to be complete nonsense. They may be easier to get but it is not because they are hornier. Even if such a woman is not into sex, she has to compromise more because it is more difficult for her to get a partner in comparison with more attractive women. However, less resistance doesn't equal horniness. Another factor is that if they want to get and keep a partner they have to try more which means that even if they are inclined to lay there and do nothing during sex based on the level of their sexual desire, they have to try more and do something or create the impression they enjoy sex to attract the guy. All in all, although I agree that it may be easier for a guy to go "hogging" instead of trying for sex with an attractive woman, I don't think it is because less attractive women are hornier than more attractive ones.
However, this issue is even more complex than I suggested above because a woman's self-esteem may play an important role in this regard. It means that if a woman who is not very attractive has a high self-esteem and thinks she is attractive she can behave as a princess reducing possible "benefits" stemming from her poor attractiveness to zero. On the other hand an attractive woman with low self-esteem may be sexually more open and try more than an equally attractive woman with high self-esteeem.
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Add paragraph 1) "A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush." Especially if there is a high probability that the two in the bush will become transformed into dead fish as soon as they get from the bush into the bed.
Add paragraph 2) Fully agreed. Personally, I find high self-esteem, or even healthy self-esteem or self-confidence quite repulsive. Low self-esteem is very sexy in my deviant and self-loathing eyes. "Birds of a feather flock together."
(...for the time being that´s all I have to say about birds...:)
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LOL :)
LOL :)