Attraction to the notion of a male/female self

unusual fetish? yes/no?
not having sex with oneself of course.
but just the notion.
I find it stimulating, perhaps the origin is more psychological than sexual... but I just want to know if there's anyone out there...

Is It Normal?
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  • it sounds like an excuse for being ugly ~ coz i've heard this type of talk a great deal on campus .. all from socially underdeveloped and unattractive people.

    the truth of things is always better than a self lie or a twist of reality... who cares if your fearful of girls or just plain ugly or gay and having a hard time with it etc ? that just makes you very normal ... no need to get into psyco babble about a male/female self, mostly its the freaks that start talking like that and people react with feelings of loathing and hate ... then you get hurt and attacted by your fellow man... you process the pain and hurt back ... you get lost in an ugly cycle of pain, and all because of a lie or simply not faceing what ever the truth is behind your post.

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  • Its also been a proven fact that the majority of people seem to be attratcted to people who look a lot like themselves in some way or another... I think its -somewhat- normal...

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  • I believe what you are talking about is autogynephilia and autoandrophilia (look them up on wikipedia sometime).

    I don't know how common it is, but I've met a few other people who are like you.

    I'm transgendered and I see myself as much more female than male, but I can't say I have ever been turned on by imagining myself as physically being a female.

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