Attracted to somebody i’m not physically attracted to

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So let me tell you about this girl Francesca...

She was in 1990, is of Italian, Lebanese, and Syrian American decent. She looks like a female version of Weird Al Yankovic with long, curly, dark auburn hair; because of her texture it oftenlooks like 1970s hair - straight on top, but wavier as it flows down.

She is very thin, tiny boobs, and about 5’7’ tall. She has a naturally quiet voice.

I know her from higschool and our paths recently crossed. I’m single and thought to myself “there’s something about Francesca I like.” But I don’t know why. I’m not physically attracted to her, she awkward, but she is smart and sweet. I would like to give her a chance at dating, but know how to approach this reclusive girl.

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    We didn’t really need to know her year of birth or ethnicity, but she’s sound like a wonderful lady to be in relationship with. She’s probably very loyal and sweet.

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  • bbrown95
    4 years ago

    Yes, sometimes you are attracted to people because of their personality rather than their looks. With several of the guys I've liked over the years, I didn't really notice them much at first and thought of them as just average, but started to like them as I got to know them better. For me, I don't usually develop feelings or true attraction until I get to know someone.

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  • DeathXN
    4 years ago

    I think It's because you're not sexually attracted to her.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      I think that’s a factor as well. On top of that she’s quiet intelligent and caring, although little religious, which is the only turn off for me.

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  • LaughinSkull
    4 years ago

    Ask her out on a few dates to get to know her. Keep it casual, low key/pressure, and don’t have any serious expectations. You might surprise yourself.

    If you still feel this will be a serious problem for you after a date or two, however, I wouldn’t lead her on.

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  • AnneViolet
    4 years ago

    Is your name Jason?

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  • Ellenna
    4 years ago

    If you like her, get to know her better. How she looks isn't as important as her personality.

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  • Nikclaire
    4 years ago

    I work with a girl who is really unfortunate looking. She is somewhat cross eyed, has bottle glasses and buck teeth and is a little dense with a weird dorky attitude. For whatever reason I find myself staring at her whenever she is around. I dont talk to her because she is too strange but I can't take my eyes off her.

    She is a train wreck and she is amazing!!!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      At least Francesca is smart unlike your coworker.

      I forgot to mention her eyes tend to be focused upward instead of straight somewhat like a person with Cerebral Palsy, but she dosen’t have it.

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      • Nikclaire
        4 years ago

        Socially dense, not intellectually.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          4 years ago

          Gotcha. Well, I wouldn’t call her socially dense, but perhaps severally timid and awkward.

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