This is one of the stupidest fucking things women do.
People only change themselves. You cannot do that for them.
I will give some insight into how this always turns out badly.
When somebody is willing to put up with somebodies bullshit, they become viewed as a victim. The person who they are trying to change may even pretend that they want help because they see an opportunity to obtain a willing victim who they can use to get what they want.
Sometimes these unhealthy relationships go on forever because they victim is too weak to end the situation. The victim is never respected because in the mind of others they do not deserve respect.
It might sound harsh but that's how it is. Find somebody you like for who they are.
Another thing is when you accept someone's behavior, you encourage it. Most people will get worse if allowed to. Obviously if somebody wanted to be around them while acting like a douchebag, that only gives them permission to become more of a douchebag because it is apparent that others will tolerate that behavior. They definitely wont change if they think they can get away with those things. This is how abusive relationships usually happen.
Attracted to guys who I want to change?
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This is one of the stupidest fucking things women do.
People only change themselves. You cannot do that for them.
I will give some insight into how this always turns out badly.
When somebody is willing to put up with somebodies bullshit, they become viewed as a victim. The person who they are trying to change may even pretend that they want help because they see an opportunity to obtain a willing victim who they can use to get what they want.
Sometimes these unhealthy relationships go on forever because they victim is too weak to end the situation. The victim is never respected because in the mind of others they do not deserve respect.
It might sound harsh but that's how it is. Find somebody you like for who they are.
Another thing is when you accept someone's behavior, you encourage it. Most people will get worse if allowed to. Obviously if somebody wanted to be around them while acting like a douchebag, that only gives them permission to become more of a douchebag because it is apparent that others will tolerate that behavior. They definitely wont change if they think they can get away with those things. This is how abusive relationships usually happen.
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I agree with all of this