Attracted to androgynous but cute girls who can be mistaken as a dude

I'm a dude, but is it normal that a straight dude like me to be attracted to cute, tomboyish girl that can dress up in guy clothes and be easily mistaken as a good-looking guy? You see, my best friend is a transgendered man (born as a girl, acts and thinks like a guy), who at one point, I tried to date since my best friend is incredibly attractive to both men and women(and of course, failed, and she also already has a girlfriend, but she's is still my best friend and that never changed). But even before that, I was attracted to this girl who always dress up in basketball uniform. Her older sister is also attractive, but for some reason, I liked her more, even if she doesn't wear female attire.

In any case, I'm still greatly attracted to women (as I try and hold back from staring too long at a girl's lovely assets, like how your eye will automatically lock in at something that catches your eye the most, like a lone beautiful rose in a field of venus fly traps) and not attracted to men (I don't go that way, sorry), but overall, I'm way more attracted to girls who dress up as guys more than typical girls (and in contrast, I'm irritated to those extremely girly girls who wants everything pink and cute. I would never stay in a room that's pink all over.). I also like the fact that when they dress up as a guy, other girls would be attracted to her (although honestly, I wouldn't be interested in those other girls).

Anyway, is this normal? Like I said, I'm into tomboyish girls who can be androgynous and pass up as an attractive dude when she dresses up as a man. In a semi-related note, I'm into chicks who love martial arts as well.

So anyone else who has this?

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  • Androgyny is beautiful. :) I'm an a androgynous chick, and annoying as it is to be mistaken for a guy, I feel like it's more normal and more human to be less defined by your gender. And awesome to see that more people are down with it, around here people Are kind of assholes to me for not being feminine enough :p

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  • I'm a guy,and i consider myself bisexual to some point
    i prefer girls and i prefer more the femalish or girlish type,but i also like girlish boys who look a little androgynous,however i don't like them to be very effeminate,i only like those who look androgynous,but i prefer their behavior to be neutral
    and i've also liked women who were really cute but androgynous,i even had a girlfriend like that,not tomboyish,but a little androgynous looking
    But i really prefer femalish girls

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  • I'm a female and I can also see androgeny attractive from
    Both sides!
    I livec with a transexual ( as mates) and its a different kettle
    Of fish to masculine females!Cute guys are often effeminate and it is gaining popularity hence metro sexuals etc, I don't have a type with men myself but I'm not gay or bi ( I've experimented so I know) but I like looking and appreciating females of
    All forms and I do think the androgenous female is a sexy look infact it quite fashionable ATM i myself have cropped blonde hair and feel much sexier!I think we are all Individual and like different things it's wot makes people match and evolve
    So just enjoy and don't worry about other people,

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  • BELLS is totally right normal and found youre type . i like brunettes whit white skin they are like gold to me better up platin.

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  • Girls with short hair and who look like a hot looking dude are drop dead gorgeous..especially if they look like one of those 'emo' boys..smokin!!!!...and im not being weird or fetishist either,totally no disrespect to any girl or woman out there..women of whatever looks or fashion sense are NOT objects,dont get me wrong..if you find a boyish looking lady attractive then go for it dude,screw what any of ur guy friends have to say..sigh,i wish i could have met a gorgeous boyish lookin lady to share my life with,then i could have tasted a bit of happiness in this temporary life..dont let what you want slip outta your hands people,so long as it aint evil and doesnt harm others,go for it dudes and dudettes!

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  • I think you might have had a crush on your best friend growing up and now that she's has a different sex you are confused and now are projecting your attraction for him onto other women.

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  • in the exact same boat. my bestie is transgender 2.. the worst part about this is that most androgynous girls don't like boys..

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  • well i kinda see where you're coming from, theres this girl i know who used to have long hair and then she cut it short like a guy and she's super cute now but she doesnt know i think that haha

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  • Perfectly normal... Like said, you've found your tipe.

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  • Me too, androgyny does something for me.

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  • lol you'd totally be attracted to me! people always mistake me as a boy..i even have short hair...lol umm but wait never mind! i love pink and cute stuff!

    ok back to your question! yes thats completely normal! sometimes people are attracted to things that remind them of themselves! its a fact
    i loveeeee guys that are tall with a big nose! [because it reminds me of myself..lol]

    therefore, you like girls that dress like boys because it reminds you of yourself!!

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    • Hahah I only mind if everything I see in a girl's room is pink lol. (Although I did forget to mention that I love short hair on women)

      Hmm... I privately see myself as a paradigm of manliness and am secretly very flattered whenever someone says that I'm "the man!" (in an evil, egocentric manner lol... maybe I should submit a story of that next)... so if I like a girl who reminds me of myself, I guess it would make sense that they would wear fashionable men's attire, is sporty, and is attractive to both sexes...

      ...that actually makes a bit of sense, when I stop and think about it lol.

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      • It's normal. I guess you've found your type.
        I've always been attracted to androgyny - I don't know what it is, but I love it.

        Hmmm I'm not sure what to make of this self-psychoanalysis you've got going on here LOL :)

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  • Nothing wrong with that, tomboyish girls are more approachable and their interests and behavior are generally easier to identify with. Plus girls who play sports are more flexible and have great muscle control... Fantastic muscle control

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  • i've done that. not as a rule, but i've done it. i guess i never really examined my own motivations. maybe its something else attracted you, distorted image, not as many social hurdles, you know. like the way she dresses is just secondary, you're connecting on some other level. like does attract like. it really does.

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    • Those are possible, although I feel that I prefer girls who go to the men's wear section than women's wear section in a department store. It's not just any girl who wear's men's clothes though, of course, since I am attracted to those who are good-looking.

      I particularly like women wearing men's sports wear the most. Men's fashion covers more skin, but it still attracts me.

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  • I hate to break this to you bro. It's normal, but you're a closet queer. A jonesy, a gay, a homosexual. Please embrace no distaste.

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