At what point do I go get condom packets from my drawer?

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  • sexysonofsam
    8 years ago | pl

    Are you that verbal RoseIsabella or do you just let things run its course in a situation like that? Just asking, in my experience I have never actually heard a girl say to me, "lets get it on", or I want you now" it just kind of happens!

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    • RoseIsabella
      8 years ago | pl

      Yes, I'm very verbal, and I don't just let things run their course. I prefer to not let things just kinda happen.

      Nothing happens in my world without verbal consent. I deeply resent presumptions.

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    • (s)aint
      8 years ago | pl

      I'm verbal, with a partner I know since before. Otherwise I sorta just ... throw myself at his cock and starts rubbing it, they tend to get the hint.

      This said: It isn't a BAD THING having one in your back-pocket, that is way better than "interrupting" the act like you suggested.
      Make out with her, touch her if she touches you and slowly proceed from there. if yours and her pants are down and you are butt naked- Then bring out condom and say "Should we?"

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      • sexysonofsam
        8 years ago | pl

        Now that is what i am talking about, a woman who knows her sexuality and is not scared to get what she wants.

        In the end we are all normal / horny beings, rather cum prepared than not...pardon the pun (it was intended) in todays society with Aids and other nasty STD`s we cannot take chances with our lives / health!

        Cum prepared or don`t Cum at all!

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        • (s)aint
          8 years ago | pl

          Sadly it's an issue of mine, I've had more unprotected than protected sex. I just ... loose the importance of protection whilst going on at it.
          It doesn't help that some men go flaccid from wearing one either.

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          • sexysonofsam
            8 years ago | pl

            I also loose perspective when I am going at it, you're forgiven!

            The only way to stop a man from going flaccid whilst donning a condom is the girl must do it for him, use your mouth to put it on, he will not go flaccid I assure you, it always works for me!

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            • (s)aint
              8 years ago | pl

              I'll give an example from last time i tried with a condom on: I put it on and it was rock-hard but then after a few moments it was flaccid.I got angry because I hadn't had sex for 15 days so i said: Fuck it.

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              • sexysonofsam
                8 years ago | pl

                Yep that happens, one moment it is so hard you can use it as a pick axe, the next moment you are suffering from droopy dick syndrome! Woman don`t understand because all they have to do is lie back and spread their legs!

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      • RoseIsabella
        8 years ago | pl

        Yes, having a rubber on you is good preparation. Some people think it's presumptuous, but better safe than sorry. Also, there are those who think it spoils the mood to ask for or give verbal consent, but I'm certainly not one of them.

        There's something beautiful to me about someone asking for permission, not just in sex, but anything really. I love good manners. I wish more people would freely communicate their feelings and intentions. Sure we all risk being turned down, but I'd rather be rejected or reject someone than just go along with a presumption. I feel deliberate action even if unsuccessful is courageous and shows vulnerability.

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        • (s)aint
          8 years ago | pl

          I tend to want the other person to make the first move and I do prefer it to be non-verbal to be honest.
          But I see where you are coming from too, it's far too common these days with people who just throw themselves at you without caring the slightest about getting any sort of consent/permission.

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          • sexysonofsam
            8 years ago | pl

            RoseIsabella you are contradicting yourself here, are you in or out?

            There certainly is nothing that beats good manners in life but some things are better left unspoken.

            I mean to ask, "Madam do you mind if we now copulate (have consensual sex)?" is a bit of a turn off for any normal human being is it not?

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