My mother was once like this but it wasn't her fault... completely. We had just had to move house because my mothers house was vandalised whilst she and I were next door, she went back to our house to find people smashing her (and mine) stuff, she tried to fight them but took several VERY hard blows to the head with a table leg. Anyways, after we moved my mother became very aggressive, never hitting me or my siblings (we were around 6, 9, and 15 years old) but she would verbally (and psychologically) bully us. But it turned out years later (after not being allowed by social services to see her) that it was because the blows to her head made her hear voices inside her head, and she was scared, and the voices were racist, homophobist, sexist, and they always said that they wanted to kill us all, my mother hardly slept 'cos of them. But now everything is better, but the point I'm making is that maybe your wife is going through something but is too afraid to tell you (or anybody else) what's wrong.
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My mother was once like this but it wasn't her fault... completely. We had just had to move house because my mothers house was vandalised whilst she and I were next door, she went back to our house to find people smashing her (and mine) stuff, she tried to fight them but took several VERY hard blows to the head with a table leg. Anyways, after we moved my mother became very aggressive, never hitting me or my siblings (we were around 6, 9, and 15 years old) but she would verbally (and psychologically) bully us. But it turned out years later (after not being allowed by social services to see her) that it was because the blows to her head made her hear voices inside her head, and she was scared, and the voices were racist, homophobist, sexist, and they always said that they wanted to kill us all, my mother hardly slept 'cos of them. But now everything is better, but the point I'm making is that maybe your wife is going through something but is too afraid to tell you (or anybody else) what's wrong.