Asking someone out via fb?

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There's this girl I like. We recently split schools so there's no way I can verbally contact her. My only form of contact is facebook. I plan to ask her out on facebook, if she says no I'll tell her a week later "Sorry my account was hacked." If she says ye then YAY! Is this normal/acceptable/Ok? And please answer and help.

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  • Justsomejerk
    10 years ago | pl

    Sorry my account was hacked = zero integrity.

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  • shinshins
    10 years ago | pl

    She'll know for sure it was you don't say your account was hacked... Why would a hacker ask a girl out?

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    • derektant
      10 years ago | pl

      The hacker would wanna make me look bad. Of course, I'd also post a status like "I'm a fat retard" to help the cover-up.

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    • GoraIntoDesiGals
      10 years ago | pl

      Hackers may want to make the hackee look bad in a pure evil spree.

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  • Darkoil
    10 years ago | pl

    "tell her my account was hacked" Grow a pair for gods sake man.

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  • Saycheese
    10 years ago | pl

    Just ask her out... it's as simple as that. There is no need to make anything up. :\

    If she says no, move on.

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  • dom180
    10 years ago | pl

    From what I've been told, girls appreciate being asked out in person a hell of a lot more than via the internet. I'm sure you can find a way to meet up with her IRL and ask. If not, at the very least Skype her :P

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago | pl

    I'm a girl, and if someone asked me out via FB I'd refuse.
    Most girls I know prefer the face to face approach. We like a guy who has balls!
    Don't go the stupid route and claim your account got hacked if she refuses. She'll see right through it then bam goes your dignity, and you won't get another date until you are 35 (if your lucky)
    So go and ask her face to face and keep you dignity intact.

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  • Mando
    10 years ago | pl

    You are supposed to be 18 to be here. Just saying because this is not a very adult question, which nevertheless others have answered.

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  • Myghoul2099
    7 years ago | pl

    just no.

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  • ccjigsaw
    10 years ago | pl

    I would do that actually. There's alot of negative feedback.. but I would totally do that.

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  • Dusterbro
    10 years ago | pl

    Man up and ask her in person I this starting or ending relationship over txt or fb or anything like that is just not right! Iv been dumped over txt before and I was more mad about that then the fact that I just got dumped so do yourself a favor and ask in person!

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    10 years ago | pl

    Wow, as a fellow guy I'm gonna have to take away your man card till you forget the fake account hacking, that's just bad.

    As far as not being able to see her, what is the point of a relationship if you aren't able to see or talk to the other person?

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  • Saycheese
    10 years ago | pl

    I just have to say. You know if this topic was made by a girl, I bet the percentage would of been higher.

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  • Energy
    10 years ago | pl

    Asking her out on Facebook during this technology age is ok. However, the hacking excuse is pathetic.

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  • ygrowup
    10 years ago | pl

    Just ask her to meet you at the mall or something online, but ask for the date in person

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  • Unimportant
    10 years ago | pl

    Well, sounds like a plan.

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  • abominus566
    10 years ago | pl

    people, do that all the time. especially now with all of the computers and dating sites and what not, i have had a girls ask me out through cyber means. its not that bad

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  • yesnomaybeso
    10 years ago | pl

    just NO

    Being asked out on facebook looks like a joke. She's obviously going to refuse.

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  • SkullsNBones
    10 years ago | pl

    No, no, no, no,NO. Just ask her to met up with you and ask then. Asking out over Facebook or text is impersonal, unromantic and lazy.

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  • Shackleford96
    10 years ago | pl

    Saying your account was hacked would be very obvious, and in my opinion, very stupid as well.

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