Ashamed of being naked in front of a girl

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I am 21 years old and I have never had sex and as a matter of fact, I barely know anything about it. I do have the burning desire to have sex, but I am afraid of messing everything up. I had for a few months a relationship with a girl, but I wasn't able to tell her that I am virgin. I was so anxious in that moment that I didn't do anything in the end. I know it sounds a bit weird, but I am ashamed of being naked in front of a girl. I am afraid of being laughed at, because I don't know whether my penis is with 16cm small or not. I wouldn't mind having sex in the dark, but I don't fancy the idea of acting as a coward. My last question is following.. is sex different compared to masturbation? I don't know why I ams so ashamed of being naked in front of others, but I simply can't overcome those feelings, no matter what I do. I would appreciate some suggestions and I hope you can help me. I know it's all about confidence, which I have, but that is something different. Thanks.

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  • sillygirl77
    8 years ago | pl

    Your penis size is normal. When you find the right person, it will be great and you'll be okay nude!

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  • MCEminem
    8 years ago | pl

    Don't worry

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago | pl

    You don't have to get naked.

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    • Short4Words
      8 years ago | pl

      He's not a nevernude.

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      • Arm0se
        8 years ago | pl

        I am, unless I'm changing or showering of course. When I'm naked I feel... well, naked lol. I don't like it.

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago | pl

    Do you think it was any different for any other guy the first time? What makes you think you are so special?
    It doesn't matter how big your dick is or anything else. You are just like every single virgin out there; insecure and unsure of yourself in a sexual situation. Get over it. Go have some fun. No girl of any consequence is going to laugh at you; we were ALL virgins, the first time.
    If you really want help getting over your shyness and inexperience, hire a call girl or two and then you won't be shy or inexperienced any more.

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  • orgasmio7
    7 years ago | pl

    16cm is NOT small!

    Try striping off with your back turned, but before you turn round, make yourself erect - you'll be surprised how it increases your confidence.

    Strip off in lower lighting the first time if you want; but try to get used to being seen naked as early on as you can.

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  • Lonely2
    8 years ago | pl

    the more you are around women the more comfortable youll get...its experience and exposure

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  • green_boogers
    8 years ago | pl

    Most girls love 16cm, because it fits them perfectly. No problem with that. The worrisome thing here is that your anxiety is destroying the sensual and pleasurable mood that needs to be created. Try getting a massage at a massage parlor. After a few massages, your sense of touch will be better. Good sex is all about touch and anticipating pleasure.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    8 years ago | pl

    Thanks for the answers so far, but it is a fact that I am a very shy person and I can't find myself comfortable in the situation like this. In my belief some girls in my age are way too immature and they probably wouldn't understand that the size doesn't play such an essential role. Of course sex in the dark wouldn't be ideal and that's why I ask. Is sex like masturbation with the only difference that I can't touch the girl? I would appreciate a honest answer about that. Thanks very much and believe me, I do my best in order to overcome my shyness.

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  • answerme
    8 years ago | pl

    First off never have sex in the dark it's like listening to porn without the video and only the Sound with jerking off. Second just fuck someone then get it over with

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  • lelouch82
    8 years ago | pl

    Dude, you don't have to go naked if you don't want to. Tbh I'm personally a guy who dislikes being nude.

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  • TrustMeImLying
    8 years ago | pl

    That burning desire you speak of is pretty darn powerful, mind you. For all you know when the time comes you'll go auto-pilot.

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  • NathanScot
    8 years ago | pl

    Just get a prostitute,she wont mind/care about ur being ashamed and all those other things.Cher'

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago | pl

      I have no intention of going to such place, because I am not a guy who just wants sex, but a serious relationship with a girl. Having sex is for me a subsequent of a relationship and as a matter of fact,I wouldn't fancy having sex with a girl who I don't have feelings for.

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