The reason why she walks all over you is because you let her. Second paragraph, "I'll politely answer anything she asks". Fourth paragraph, "I always buy her lunch and anything else she asks for". Reading that I can see you're sweet, polite and loving, but I can also see a good opportunity for someone to take advantage of. She knows that she can do pretty much anything and she can get away with it. You have to stand your ground and tell it to her straight how she's treating you and tell her to stop, and if she doesn't do so, then cut her off until she does. Even mothers need to learn some respect. All the best!
Silentnight is very right. you must put your foot down and dont let her do what shes doing after all you are on your own that means you are an adult, dont take her shit anymore.
Not it's not normal for mothers to treat us like this but sadly for some of us it's reality. It's a sad day but you know you gotta admit it if your mum is a total bitch, there's probably the occasional gestures of love but more often than not you probably sense this sort of spite she's giving to you. She clearly has a favour child and unfortunately for some reason we happen to be the disliked one. My story is a long and complicated one but what hateful mother daughter relation isn't. Oh needless to add, she managed to make my father and siblings hate me. She curses my future, saying its filled with ills, that no one will want me, my university education is pointless and that I will end up being nothing. What sort of mother curses their own child that badly. Crushes their dreams? Mines does and it's got to the point where I'm not even crying anymore.
As an adult, my mom is a total bitch towards me! IIN?
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The reason why she walks all over you is because you let her. Second paragraph, "I'll politely answer anything she asks". Fourth paragraph, "I always buy her lunch and anything else she asks for". Reading that I can see you're sweet, polite and loving, but I can also see a good opportunity for someone to take advantage of. She knows that she can do pretty much anything and she can get away with it. You have to stand your ground and tell it to her straight how she's treating you and tell her to stop, and if she doesn't do so, then cut her off until she does. Even mothers need to learn some respect. All the best!
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Silentnight is very right. you must put your foot down and dont let her do what shes doing after all you are on your own that means you are an adult, dont take her shit anymore.
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Not it's not normal for mothers to treat us like this but sadly for some of us it's reality. It's a sad day but you know you gotta admit it if your mum is a total bitch, there's probably the occasional gestures of love but more often than not you probably sense this sort of spite she's giving to you. She clearly has a favour child and unfortunately for some reason we happen to be the disliked one. My story is a long and complicated one but what hateful mother daughter relation isn't. Oh needless to add, she managed to make my father and siblings hate me. She curses my future, saying its filled with ills, that no one will want me, my university education is pointless and that I will end up being nothing. What sort of mother curses their own child that badly. Crushes their dreams? Mines does and it's got to the point where I'm not even crying anymore.