As a male i feel self-conscious about liking/wanting a daughter more?

I'm the father of a twelve year-old girl, and I was a little relieved when the doctor doing the ultrasound on my pregnant wife told us we were going to have a girl.

Having been a boy and having spent a good part of my working life in all-male environments, I hadn't been looking forward to the challenges of trying to raise a son who ended up being a decent man in spite of all the social and hormonal pressures pushing him towards becoming a total dickhead.

It’s normal that you want a daughter because you believe little girls are all sweet and innocent and can do no wrong but I’m a girl and I was a little bitch so you might be surprised. In my opinion, girls can be meaner and colder than boys.

That sounds very sweet to me :)

I feel you on this, dude. I want one strong son and two daughters. I would give them lots of cuddles and kisses!

I know a couple of guys that only wants daughters. It’s pretty normal. But it sounds like you like the thought of having a little angel so therefore you want one.

But dude, no matter what sex your child is. They won’t be born angelic and sweet. Some can be real monsters if you spoil them and be too lenient. Take it from a older sister with a very big family and someone who used to work with kids.

You have completely idealized girls. I suggest you figure out a way to listen to some teenage girls conversations, and you'll soon see how bitchy, bratty, sex crazed and not at all as innocent as your mind has led you to believe we are.

I wanted a son like that

Well uh the kissing part sounds weird. I instantly thought about those parents who kiss there kids on the lips like the fuck?

Nah, fuck that noise, have some daughters.

My fiancée is pregnant at the moment and I’d be absolutely overjoyed to have a daughter. Of course I’d be happy with a son too, really we are just wishing for a healthy and happy cub, but I’d never be the type to be like “Ugh, I wanted a son!” Like you see some idiots on tv do.
But I want like 9 kids, boys and girls, anyway.

I’ve been told my whole adult life that people hope I raise some girls, which I always found funny, but consider to be a compliment.

Anyway, there are too many males who have weird views or can’t get along with women, it’s good that you seem to do well. It’s annoying when you see men get pissy when they find out they will be having a girl. I’ve seen some “gender reveal” videos where the men throw a whole fit over it.