We were given conscious by evolution to evaluate the right and wrong. For the ones who cheat, well, you're nothing more than an animal up for doing an eager partner, like a dog.
You may have lost the spark during the long run, but sparks can be relit. Put some effort into it, dude. Court her like you two are back into the youthful times again, charm her, make her feel young, and a lovely wife would return the favor.
You married her because you love(d) her, right? I know love fades in time, and it definitely sucks that she was unfaithful before (my own girlfriend moped about her mistake for months). If she was sorry, and learnt her lesson, then there's no point in wanting payback. Love is supposed to be forgiving. For that time, you forgave her. So what, you're considering on taking the forgiveness back now? That'd mean you never did love her - which'll mean you let her waste her youth married to you.
It's good you aren't making a move. As a guy I understand the temptation, but think about your wife who was there for you through thick and thin for so many years.
As a 40-Something-Year Old Married Man, What Would You Do?
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We were given conscious by evolution to evaluate the right and wrong. For the ones who cheat, well, you're nothing more than an animal up for doing an eager partner, like a dog.
You may have lost the spark during the long run, but sparks can be relit. Put some effort into it, dude. Court her like you two are back into the youthful times again, charm her, make her feel young, and a lovely wife would return the favor.
You married her because you love(d) her, right? I know love fades in time, and it definitely sucks that she was unfaithful before (my own girlfriend moped about her mistake for months). If she was sorry, and learnt her lesson, then there's no point in wanting payback. Love is supposed to be forgiving. For that time, you forgave her. So what, you're considering on taking the forgiveness back now? That'd mean you never did love her - which'll mean you let her waste her youth married to you.
It's good you aren't making a move. As a guy I understand the temptation, but think about your wife who was there for you through thick and thin for so many years.