The only people who are against cheating are people who still have the "spark" in their relationship, or people who are single and too busy fantasizing about the perfect relationship to even consider cheating as a viable option.
In truth, people have needs. If your wife no longer shows willingness to fulfill your needs, then talk to her about it.
If you are no longer in love with her (loving someone and being in love with someone are two different things entirely), then divorce or seperation are your best options.
No. You're right about people having needs, you're right about him either having to divorce or separate from her, but in truth, good people will realize that even when things get rough in a relationship, cheating is wrong.
Cheating is usually an easy option for those who don't have the gall to step up to the plate and communicate to address the issues in their relationship with their partner. Instead, they cheat to run away from having to face the issue. They cheat to run away from having to spill the truth(that they've fallen out of love w/them.) to their partner.
Even when you know you're completely out of love with the one you're with. If you're a person with higher morals, you would know right from wrong and realize that cheating always stands as being WRONG! Think about it, would you rather someone tell you upfront how they truly feel? OR Would you rather find out on your own that they're sneaking around behind your back? How would you feel if someone cheated on you?
It's a move made by cowards! Its a slap in the face to the one they've fallen out of love with. And I don't care who the heck you are, to be cheated on will hurt! Its wrong. I wouldn't even do it to someone I despised. Its the lowest of the low.
As a 40-Something-Year Old Married Man, What Would You Do?
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The only people who are against cheating are people who still have the "spark" in their relationship, or people who are single and too busy fantasizing about the perfect relationship to even consider cheating as a viable option.
In truth, people have needs. If your wife no longer shows willingness to fulfill your needs, then talk to her about it.
If you are no longer in love with her (loving someone and being in love with someone are two different things entirely), then divorce or seperation are your best options.
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No. You're right about people having needs, you're right about him either having to divorce or separate from her, but in truth, good people will realize that even when things get rough in a relationship, cheating is wrong.
Cheating is usually an easy option for those who don't have the gall to step up to the plate and communicate to address the issues in their relationship with their partner. Instead, they cheat to run away from having to face the issue. They cheat to run away from having to spill the truth(that they've fallen out of love w/them.) to their partner.
Even when you know you're completely out of love with the one you're with. If you're a person with higher morals, you would know right from wrong and realize that cheating always stands as being WRONG! Think about it, would you rather someone tell you upfront how they truly feel? OR Would you rather find out on your own that they're sneaking around behind your back? How would you feel if someone cheated on you?
It's a move made by cowards! Its a slap in the face to the one they've fallen out of love with. And I don't care who the heck you are, to be cheated on will hurt! Its wrong. I wouldn't even do it to someone I despised. Its the lowest of the low.
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Amen to that!