are you pro trans or anti trans?

I don't really get the kid thing. Literally any adult is a potential danger to your children.

Personally I always escort my little ones to the toilet anyway, because I'm fucking sick of them getting "stuck" in the cubicles, and you really don't know what kind of weirdos could be hanging around in there, male, female, trans or otherwise. It's a public place so you need to be vigilant about strangers, just as you are in any other public place.

As a parent you have a pretty long list of stuff that you need to worry about and you have to perform hundreds of risk assessments every day. The idea of a trans person sneaking into the toilet to rape my children is, of course, a scary one, but in all honesty it is pretty low down on my list of concerns.