To be honest, when I was fat, I used to be jealous of men because fat men could get girlfriends and fat girls couldn't even get a glance from a guy. I could recount so many incidences of this at school.
But let's take my uncle, who is and was fat, dated a really nice and pretty woman. Now, they're a happy married couple, with two daughters. So I really thought fat men received more love than fat girls.
I'm no longer the fat girl that I was, but I guess I still have that mindset deep in my mind: that men have it better than women when it comes to finding love. I mean, I've seen girls with ugly boyfriends, but never guys with ugly girlfriends. Maybe that's just me, but... sigh. I just feel like, as a girl, I need to keep myself all dolled-up and "prettified" 24/7, because that's what society demands: Girls need to be pretty.
I'm sorry if I appeared shallow. I just feel that way. Sorry. I do try to keep in mind that it's not which sex has the better life, it's what kind of person that has the better life.
Are you jealous of the opposite sex?
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To be honest, when I was fat, I used to be jealous of men because fat men could get girlfriends and fat girls couldn't even get a glance from a guy. I could recount so many incidences of this at school.
But let's take my uncle, who is and was fat, dated a really nice and pretty woman. Now, they're a happy married couple, with two daughters. So I really thought fat men received more love than fat girls.
I'm no longer the fat girl that I was, but I guess I still have that mindset deep in my mind: that men have it better than women when it comes to finding love. I mean, I've seen girls with ugly boyfriends, but never guys with ugly girlfriends. Maybe that's just me, but... sigh. I just feel like, as a girl, I need to keep myself all dolled-up and "prettified" 24/7, because that's what society demands: Girls need to be pretty.
I'm sorry if I appeared shallow. I just feel that way. Sorry. I do try to keep in mind that it's not which sex has the better life, it's what kind of person that has the better life.