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Literally love big girls and small girls of all shapes and sizes. But I always tend to date the skinnier girls due to the opinions of my friends! Ive finally decided to put that behind me and date whoever I want, although Im a confident guy I don't know how to address my love of bigger girls to my close guy friends. Like to see how many other guys/girls are happily into bigger girls!
I assume by "bigger" you mean "fatter".
I don't believe in the "all women are beautiful", because they're not, just like not all guys are handsome.
Being overweight "the vast majority" of the time is due to unhealthy reasons, and it isn't as visually pleasing to "most" people, and I find it irritating when people think they have the right to shame people for saying they are not attracted to overweight people of any type, but it seems to only be an issue to say it towards overweight women.
I am also irritated by people saying they like overweight girls because they feel it is immoral to say they don't, as if they are ashamed of their own preference, which is, in my views, the same as you being shamed for your preference of bigger girls.
Do I think it's great you like bigger girls? No. Do I think it's bad? No. Why? Because we have preferences, and liking bigger girls does not make you any more or less moral than liking skinny girls. I do think it is bad if people shame you for it, but I also think it's bad if people encourage you to do it as if liking skinny girls is less moral. There are people that like bigger women, and that's fine, but like I said, it doesn't make you more moral than those that don't.
People want to say fuck you to those that say they don't like fat women.
I say fuck those people that think people should be forced to like a type of woman they don't find attractive just because of their false sense of morality.
Point is, we like who we like. You should not be shamed for liking bigger women, just like people should not be shamed for referring skinny women.
Exactly, you put that so well. I also know for a fact that overweight/fat women do not like hearing people say things like "big girls need love, too." Because that sounds like you're taking pity on them, or like they're a sort of fetish. If you like bigger women, great, kudos to you. If you like them skinny, great, kudos to you. If you're an in-the-middle type of person, great, kudos to you. Don't pretend to like someone or something just because of a "false sense of morality" like ItDuz said.
This one time a psychology major sat beside me and began explaining that marriages with skinny women tend to not last as long as marriages to curvy women, but skinny women get married more often because the media portrays the skinny body as perfection... Being a skinny girl in a relationship for 10 years I have to disagree to some extent; I think women who care too much about their weight and looks, in a narcissistic way, are more likely to be divorced. I think relationships based on superficiality are more likely to end.
Most guys I know do like big girls (and skinny girls). I bet all your guy friends have or will have sex with a bigger girl.
I like small girls, not ashamed to say it at all, I don't like overweight/fat/tall girls. I like girls to be small and petit. If you think I'm discriminating, I, quite frankly don't care, I'm just not sexually attracted to big girls, but if I was, I certainly wouldn't be ashamed of it, especially to the point where I wouldn't date them because of what people think. I like what I like, you like what you like. Period.
I just think it's shallow that you are/were ashamed of liking bigger girls, at the end of the day, you're the one that's dating them, not your friends. Get over yourself is all I have to say to people who are that shallow.
Sorry if I offend you, but that's what I think.
Fat girls are very sexy. Skinny girls are very sexy. Any girl in between is sexy too. In the same way that some people look better with different hairstyles or different clothes, some people look better fat and some people look better thin. To me, anyway. It's all subjective.
EDIT: And fuck what other people think. They care less than you believe they do, and if they give you stick for it it's all in good humour and not something to take seriously.
Anyway, yes. I am attracted to "bigger women".
I used to like curvy women, bordering on minor weight issues. Then, I have also gone after some real large ones - probably pushing 300 lbs. Its all good and its all fun. Now, I have a nice petite girlfriend and quite happy as well. Whereas we all think we are happy with ourselves and our bodies, I think that many overweight people are unhappy about something or don't always feel so good about themselves.
dont listen to all those who think REAL women are gross and thank that beauty is on a magazine who doesnt eat and pukes all day to lose 5 pounds if you like big women then thats great if you dont then you need to see why and let me ask you this question look at this youtube video and tell me do you think shes hot http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VS2mfWDryPE
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