Are you annoyed by distorted thinking about penis size?

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Okay, so I am a married straight man in my 30's, and I find the topic of penis size and female desire to be very interesting. But discussion of the topic seems far more confusing than it needs to be. I notice that when people debate the question "does size matter?", men or women, they often confuse it with 2 other questions:

(1) Does bigger necessarily mean better?

(2) Is penis size the ONLY attribute that makes a man a good lover?

The answer to both of these questions is an obvious NO. Penises that are too big are painful for many women and may smash the cervix. Besides, they would seem not to be great for the guy either inasmuch as he can't put the whole thing to good use. Furthermore, it is obvious that good male lovers are good in a variety of ways. The hottest women and the most sexually adventurous women don't just look for the biggest penises, even when such information is easily obtained via the internet.

So, where does this leave us? It seems clear to me from what I have seen, read, etc. that the majority of sexually experienced women (1) prefer or even fantasize about an ideal penis size, and (2) experience some degree of sexual disappointment with men who are either too big or too small. It would also seem, though maybe the ladies should weigh in on this one, that for most women the ideal penis size is somewhat bigger than what more than half of the male population are packing, which is in the vicinity of 6 inches long and 5 inches in circumference, or smaller. (The guys who are actually bigger than the ideal penis are far less numerous.) I mean, go to your local sex shop and see how big the dildos are.

These would seem to be the basic facts, whether you find them distressing, interesting, or you just don't care.

Please share an opinion if you care to.

I don't really care 10
Yes, people are unnecessarily confused about penis size 46
I think the author of this post is just as confused or wrong as anyone 9
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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    My fiance's "average" and already in certain positions I can tell that he's too long and it hurts. (which sucks, those are fun positions)

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    • almorr
      10 years ago

      When my girlfriend first saw my erect penis, she gasped out "its enormous, that will never fit in me" how wrong she was, I admit I do have a slightly larger than average penis, this was proved way back at school when us boys compared their penises with each other, o boy they thought I had a huge one for a 14 year old. However, it looked big then because I am one of those guys that the penis is about fully grown BEFORE the rest of my body is, its a bit like a 13 or 14 girl who has large breasts compared with the rest of her body, say a size 10 with DD boobs.

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  • ccjigsaw
    11 years ago

    I know how that feels. It's the same with women and breast size. It can be a real downer and a bash on the ego. And what makes it worse is that a lot men and women support this whole bigger is better thing. I've never been one to discriminate about penis size, I somehow just ended up with a large partner, and damn rights bigger wasn't better... It's painful lol The irony i'm left with is that I feel I would actually preffer smaller. I do wish people and media would stop putting it into peoples heads that a certain body type or part is better. We can't all be the same, and creating an unreasonable "preference" just causes to people to be judgmental, insecure and fake.

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  • GreyWulfen
    11 years ago

    I think medium sized penises are better than big ones. Easier to handle. ;)

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    • GreyWulfen
      11 years ago

      And with medium size I mean around 5.5 inches (14 cm)

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  • charli.m
    11 years ago

    I had a friend who would obsess to the point of self harm over his penis size.

    As such, I am fucking sick of the whole topic.

    No, I don't actually care how big it is. I just want it attached to a good person.

    Edit: Oh, and he was a totally normal size. He just got it into his head that anything under 10inches was small. Yeah. Fucked, huh?

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    • DocGeorge
      9 years ago

      You're right – there is FAR too much emphasis placed on size – and, conversely, far too little on the health of the tool, which many men neglect. In fact, more men need to regularly use a quality penis health crème in order to make sure their members are getting the proper amino acids, vitamins, etc. for general health.

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