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I live in NY and my X comes over to my house sometimes and places me over his knee and spanks me hard with his hand, over my jeans, panties, and bare butt. I am 32 years old. I here that some women are still spanked by their parents or husbands, does anyone want to share, please tell me what state you live in, if you are a female or male, thanks
I am a woman in my fifties and recently my family members decided I should be spanked for losing my temper and throwing something at my sister. I am embarrassed to admit that the spankings ( there have been several :(( ) HAVE improved my attitude and behavior.
Just an update for those of you who are interested. My family ( sister, brother-in-law and Dad) started spanking me more than 2 years ago. It doesn't happen often any more and the experience DEFINATELY improved my behavior. For about six months it seemed like I was having my bare backside warmed almost daily. Very embarrassing.
My most recent spanking was last month when I swore at my dad. He took a hairbrush to my bottom... I won't be doing that again any timesoon
I'm a man in my forties and I still get spanked by my dad over his knee on my bare bottom
We have communicated in the past and if distance had not been the deterrent, perhaps, I would have aided in seeing that you were/are properly spanked, Young Woman. As I have told you before, you will never be too old to be taken over a knee and be properly spanked for your misbehaviour.
Michael
Glad your attitude and behavior have improved since your family decided to give you a good spanking bratty. I am in my 40's and live at home with my parents and when I misbehave, I get a spanking on my bare bottom by either one. I go over their knee, my pants and underpants are pulled down and my bare backside is walloped with a wooden bath brush. I have to admit my behavior is mostly good and it is because of my humiliating spankings.
bratty, As you should have been. I do feel if More men took the lead and responsibility in thier homes and used orporal punishment responsibly that thi swould be a much more civil world
I agree with the use of corporal discipline in homes, but not only by men. I am a spanked adult male in my relationship and love it.
It has been more than 5 years since family members starting using spanking to address my bad temper and tendency to fib
My husband has always spanked me when I get out of line and it has worked great for us.
My bf spanks me when I misbehave. I live in Utah and I'm 18. He spanks my bare butt with a paddle, a belt, or a switch.
Sounds like your boyfriend has the correct approach. Does he ever loan you out, so that others can enjoy the pleasure of spanking you? I hope he uses his hand as well, as there is no better feeling than a bare hand landing on a bare ass. What city in Utah do you reside in? I live in South Jordan.
I live in California, and I am 35, and my dad still turns me over his knee and spanks me good from 10min to 20min depending on how bad I was. I get the hand, or brush, and I cry big time, and for a long time every time. I also get spanked away from home to, my dad tells me I am not too old to be spanked as a child no matter where we are.
i cant believe im not the only one still getting spanked. im 24 and my dad has always spanked me.i hate it as he really makes my bottom sore.he always puts me on his knee takes down my knickers and spanks with his slipper.he said if i were a boy it would be a belt.im an only child, i know daddy loves me but dont undersstand why at my age he still does this to me, sometimes for the slightest thing i do wrong. he tells me ill never be too old to be spanked but surely its got to stop one day.
my dad spanked me the night before my wedding for breaking curfew lol and gave my husband a paddle for a wedding present
You have to demand that he stops spanking you especially for small things.
you are definitely not the only adult getting spanked livewire. I am 43 and still receiving bare bottom spankings from my parents. I am under their roof, so their rules apply. Your Dad does this to you because it works so well. I hate it too and my bottom is really red and very sore after a spanking, but I can tell you I don't commit the same offense again for a very long time. With my parents, my age is not a factor if I do something bad and they also put me over their knee and pull my pants and underpants down.
Thanks so much for sharing your story. Sorry it took so long to get back. But what did you mean by you get spanked away from home. Who is doing it to you. For what reasons. I am so curious. please leave your email and I will write you back faster. I would just love to talk to you.
My parents also tell me I am never too old for a spanking. At age 43, I still get my bare bum spanked hard with a wooden bath brush and like you stillspankedgirl, I cry hard. I also kick my feet in the air and squirm frantically on their laps and when I am let up from their laps, my face is red, I am crying of course and rubbing my bare burning red bottom furiously. I am ashamed, embarrassed and humiliated, but my behavior definitely improves.
At age 38 I am still spanked by my mother who is 20 years my
elder. She has a terrific figure and fabulous shapely legs
that she has always used to contain me when administering a
spanking. When my wife tells my mother what I did or did not
do and that I deserve to be spanked my mother orders me into
her bedroom and with paddle in hand makes me bare my rear and
lie on my stomach across the padded cedar chest at foot of
the bed. When in place my mother positions herself at top of
the chest and with her legs spread commands me to slide my
head between her thighs and I quickly obey her. She snaps her
thighs tight securing me in a crushing standing head scissor
hold. Gasping for air and begging her to stop squeezing I lie
perfectly still unable to escape from r scissor hold as she
takes the paddle to my bare fanny until I am crying like a
baby with tears trickling down her defined calf muscles. I
don't look forward to these spankings and since my mother has
reduced me to her obedient son I have no choice but to obey
her commands and be spanked in the method she uses.
Submitted by Saxony:
You realize that what your dad does to you is illegal. It's called assault. As an adult, if you want your boyfriend or husband to spank you because it turns you on, that's fine. However, for your father to do this is just sick. You do not, nor should you submit to this abuse.
Is a spanking effective at age 35. Does it stop you from doing again what you were spanked for? I was spanked as a child but never as an adult. The spankings I received as a child were effective. I received about five hard rapid slaps. Before I could finish crying from the first slap I received another slap.
I am female and live in NY. I think it is just fine although most would probably disagree. I am in my 30's and my Mom still has no problem paddling my bottom with her wooden spoon or the bath brush which is a real rump roaster. It's all about your personality and relationship. She even whacks my long time friends when they misbehave. Most of my boyfriends figured out that spanking me is the only way to get along with me. My current bf take down my pants, turns me over his knee, and spanks me in my panties until I agree to improve my attitude. He's dragged me out of the mall into his truck for a spanking. That is embarrassing! Especially when I have to sit down. But it works for me, although I frequently have a a burning bottom. Don't worry about it, if it works for you, just put baby lotion on your bottom and try to learn your lesson.
hi.i am 26 and am spanked by the woman i live with.she is 54 and thinks spanking is the best way to punish me.it seems to work.my behavior has improved.
i'm in the same situation as you, my mom is a r.n. at a local hsopital very strict i'm 31 she 52 and still otks me somtimes bare bottomed the other day i was spanked over her knee while she sat on the couch i had noticed she had placed an oak hair brush on the table, i knew it was going to be used on my bottom first on my clothed bottom which took about four minuets. now one thing about my mom is she is a phyicaly strong woman then without warning pinned both my arms behind my back then i knew the enevetable was about to happen down went my jeans and then my panties i got all teary eye before the first brush smacks landed and when that did happen i actually promised to be good like a little child and why did i get the spanking i got well it was for sprnding to much on grocery's. after all this was over she said she was sorry for having to have to do this and gave me a hug. i went to bed my mom came in and rubd some syeroid salve on my bottom pulled my pj's back over my bottom and said goodnight.
your Mom really loves you sorebottom and that is why she spanks your bare bottom with that awful oak hair brush. It is for your own good and although you are ashamed, embarrassed and completely humiliated, it is done so you will be a better person. Your Mom still has to teach you a lesson so you don't commit the same offense again. I also act childish before and during my bare bottom spankings. I have a naughty and ashamed look on my red face just before I go over my parent's lap, I beg and plead promising to be good, saying I won't do it again, say please Mommy or Daddy, don't spank me. And most of this continues during the spanking. I act like an naughty little boy because I am getting a very humiliating spanking like a 6 year old.
I am so sorry that it took so long to write you back. I m proud of you for coming out like you did. but i have so many question for you.
What is your nationality?
What part of ny do you live in?
DId you grow up with a father?
How did you get your bf to start spanking you?
Your friends that your mom spank, are they female or male?
Do you ever learn your lesson, why did your bf spank you in his truck when he dragged you out of the mall.
Do your mom know that he spanks you.
do you father spank your mom
do your father spank you
I know i have so may questions. I really appreciate you responding.
I am a 45 year old male and my job was abolished so I had to move in with my dad. One day I was out partying with friends and forgot to pick up my uncle at the airport. To make a long story short, when I got home, my dad grabbed mem took me over to a chair, yanked my pants down, turned me across his lap and walloped me but good. So, yes even as an adult, spanking is sometimes necessary.
Your in the same position as me stildason, still getting a spanking from your father on your bare bottom at age 45. Do you cry like me, is your face as red as your bum, do you beg and plead like I do, do you resist going over your Dad's knee, do you squirm and kick your feet. Does your father use his bare hand or other inplements when he spanks you. If did what you did, I would have got the bath brush all over my bare ass and hard at age 43.
hotseat, it sounds to me like you are a woman who needs to be spanked on a daily basis in some form. You do realize the love and caring protectiong that is on display when you are being spanked, correct? And the burning bottom, which should last for at the minimum of one day, or until the next spanking, whichever comes first, is a constant reminder for you to be on your best behaviour.
Michael
I got dragged out of the mall about a week and a half ago by my Mother. I was walking around the mall wearing cut off jean shorts and bare feet and she caught me. I didn't know she was going there, so didn't think I would get caught. My parents don't allow me to be at various public places like malls, eating establishments etc. in bare feet, so I was clearly breaking a rule. I swallowed hard when she caught me red handed and at age 43, she lectured me in front of everyone, told me I was getting a spanking in a very loud voice, walloped my backside in full view of many shoppers and took me by the ear out of the mall with my face beat red. She then marched me to her car and made me get in the back seat where she pulled me over her knee, lowered my cut offs to my knees and gave my bare bum a spanking with her hand. Then she sent me to my car and told me to drive home immediately and tell my father what I had done. When I told him, he took me to my bedroom and spanked my bare bottom again, this time with the wooden bath brush. Yes, hotseat the bath brush is a real rump roaster and like you, I know what it is like to get a public spanking. Yes, very embarrassing.
When I was divorced two years ago I went back home to live with my mother. One day there was something we didn't see eye to eye on and I told mum to stop being silly and grow up. I could have bitten off my tongue as soon as I'd said it but it was too late. I obviously apologised straight away but mum was naturally upset and said that I was not too old to have my bottom smacked. I told her to go ahead if that was what she thought and for the first time in over twenty years I found myself over her knee like a naughty girl having a sound spanking. It was the best thing she could have done and I felt so much better for it. There have been one or two more spankings and I am sure mum will prove I am still not too old to haver my bottom smacked if she thinks I deserve it.
And, when the time comes that you move out of the house, Young Woman, I am sure that you will still need the spankings, though they may come in a different form if you meet the proper man in your life. I wish you the best and she is correct, "You will never be too old to be spanked!"
Michael
It is good you had the integrity to know you were disresecful and deserved to be spanked
Good for you and your mum, Cathee. I think you were actually missing her spankings - feeling helpless and loved at the same time as you got your bottom warmed. When you say a "sound spanking," I'm assuming it was your bare bottom. Hand or hairbrush?
Well done Cathee. I am in my forties and still live at home with my mother and she obviously thinks I'm not too old for a spanking when I step out of line. I'm too big to go over her knee now and have to bend over my bed. She has a hard hand and I'm soon feeling very sore but like you I feel better for it afterwards.
a few years back i would visit a lady who spanked me. I was 50 she was in her late 60's. We became friends over the internet and lived close to each other. She would get after me if I had forgot to take my medicine daily. She also didnt like me texting an driving. I had confessed to her online that I still felt I needed a spanking now n then. So when I visited her and made confession. She would have me strip waist down and go over her lap. She used a woodspoon. She said she liked seeing my butt turn red. He spankings only last 5 minutes. My cornertime after lasted 30. Then we usually had dinner, I would do some chores for her and we spent the rest of the visit watching tv. I think being spanked if needed is normal
I have wanted someone to spank my bare bottom for a long time....I feel that I truly need to be spanked hard to the point of tears and not being able to sit after. I have not been spanked by anyone since I was a kid. I have tried to spank myself but cannot get the effect I want. I don't think its abuse unless someone does it as a constant against the others wishes...I would like someone to spank me a coupe times a week for awhile to make up for the lost time and get me on track, then when I need it or feel like I deserve one. It may not always be my choice, which is fine. But I really feel that this is normal, why would I feel like I deserve one if I don't. Punishment is meant to improve behavior and keep it that way. I welcome the idea. I just have no one to actually do it.
I've always been aroused thinking about spanking a woman on her bar bottom, but have never had the opportunity, would love the chance to do it.
me too! A good spanking is the choice of my partner,,, if he or she feels I need a spanking then I am probably going to get one!
My husband keeps tallies on how many spankings I have earned (usually with my incredibly hot temper) and he pulls my pants down, puts me over his knee, and administers the spankings.
It does help my temper. I always think twice before losing my temper around him.
He is in no way abusive, or even mean. He is wonderful, compassionate, sweet and loving. He would never hit me otherwise. Just my rump. :)
I am 25 years old and live in Indiana. I get spanked by both my husband and if needed my father in law. They are a very big into you are never too old to be spanked. They are a spanking family. He spanks all of his children if needed including children in-laws. Even though it can be embarrassing (part of punishment) it works and keeps me in line when I need it.
I am a 52 year old woman and would love to have someone spank me on my bare bottom, the stand me in the corner naked from the waist down!
There's something very appealing about spanking a mature woman. I have a lot of experience with this. And yes, the woman has had to display her red fanny afterwards. I would also chronicle the events with photos. You might be surprised how many women appreciate this. Besides enjoying administering this discipline, it allows the woman's guilt to be assuaged, and my anger not to turn into resentment.
Hi red,,, I am Very Real caucasion 61 y/o Male who spaanks for discipline safe sane...
I grew up only ever getting threatened with spankings, and never the real thing. By the time I was 13, I'd begun spanking myself. Years later, my wife took over, and while it was great fun to be bare-bottomed over her lap, the paddlings weren't nearly as hard as those I continued to give myself.
After we broke up (she actually cited spanking as one of her reasons for leaving me), I paid at least several thousand dollars over the course of some ten years for spankings from professional female dominants. One in particular described herself as a "maternal disciplinarian," and without word of a lie, her lap became my place of worship.
Every three months or so, I'd have my pants taken down and be put across her knee to have my very smackable bottom thoroughly warmed. I loved it like nothing else in this life. I honestly believed I'd been born to be spanked, and these good old-fashioned, over-the-knee spankings on my bare backside left me feeling exquisitely blessed. The woman I called Mummy Em wasn't the last to spank me, but she was the most like a mother to me.
I never though I would ever feel my mom's paddle or dad's belt on my bare butt again when I left home right after high school. But when I lost my job and ran up a bunch of debt right after I turned 21 I had to move back home and agree to their rules and their discipline as long as I was there. That in turn for free room and board, paying off my debt and paying for my community college courses that I was expected to take and do well in too. Ok I was 21 then and thought they seriously won't spank me now that I am a man. Wrong I was after staying out all night soon after I moved in and coming home drunk. They waited till 5:30 am to drag me out of bed and down to the kitchen for a long lecture and scolding session which only made my hangover more painful. Then it was over dad's knee for a long hard spanking. Then mom took me to the sink for a mouth soaping for disrespect and laungage I'd used at the beginning of the session and then she spanked me with the same hairbrush she'd used when I was a little boy. All on my bare butt as I was in pajamas and they were easily pulled down. I am 22 now and still getting my butt whipped by my mother and father.
It doesn't matter how old you are chronologically. If and when you show disrespect to your parents your bottoms need to come all the way down and need a good firm spanking given over their laps while the other parent watches. I was punished in this manner my entire life. I am nearly sixty years old now and my male partner has me lie across his lap every morning so he can check my rectal temperature and then gives me a bare bottom spanking before I am allowed out of bed. I am quite blessed to have this man in my life who knows how to handle his woman. I love ❤ and respect him completely.
Dude, you are not alone. I'm 22 yo and live at home. My parents still spank the same way you get it, over their knee and bare butt. I've got it for the same thing you got. [email protected]
...to add to a comment made earlier, BDSM and abuse are not the same thing. It's like saying swimming and baptism are the same thing. They are very much different. Just sayin'.
I am regularly spanked as a husband. I am frustrated at the moment as my son has been around for days and I don't know when he is going. He's finished University and is on some sort of course a couple of days a week but often misses it un-anounced just when I am anticipating a good sex session. My wife has promised me a good session as soon as we get the space but I am amazed at how frustrated I am when we don't have spanking.
May be we can go out in the car to the middle of nowhere and do it?
Why are you letting your ex walk into your house and attack you?
buy some mace and next time he tries to do it let him have it in the face then kick him in the balls as hard as you can and call the cops. ps dont do it until he is inside the house then its all nice and legal.
Yeah! Great thread...I'm a 56 yo man and stri naked and regularly have to submit to buck nude spankings over the knee...I crave getting them the more the better! Anyone want to spank me here! :-)
It might be hard to believe, but I was spanked recently 'cause my old man found that I cheated on my wife. He offered me the choice: a severe punishment and the promise that I'd behave myself, or informing my wife, that I love very much, about that stupid story. Of course, I accepted the punishment, not thinking that now, when I'm 41, it would be the one I was used to as a kid. No matter how much I tried to argue, I had to drop my pants and receive a very hard and long belting. I might have deserved it, but it was... well, you can imagine...
I’m 36 and still get whippings with a leather belt from my mom and stepdaddy and my husband who travels a lot is ok with it.
I read about a man who got spanked for not paying his rent.this happened to me a few years ago. I was Ill and had no money and he decided I needed to be punished.he put me over his knee pulled down my pants and smacked my bare bottom really hard.this happened once a week till I could afford to pay the last time I got caned on my bare bottom
I know thease posts are old but wondering if site is still active I am a an adult male who is bare bottom spanked and caned anybody else still get hot bottom spanked?
I know thease posts are very old just but keen to know if site still active re adult spanking I am a young 60 year old male and still soundly spanked bare bottom keen to hear other stories I live in the uk hot bottom boy?!!
I know these are very old posts but I would like to comment I was soundly spanked bare bottom with hairbrush over the knee until I was middle 20s at home still wriggled kicked like a little kid!!
I've been asked by a lady friend if she can watch her boyfriend take my pants down and spank my bare bottom I've been spanked by men before but he's much younger than me I said I would do it he said he'd love to put me over his knee and spank me bare
I got spanked again today by my partner's son over his knee on my bare bottom it was a very sound spanking she was out at the time and missed him put his big penis in my bottom she would have loved to see that it was her fantasy
I am a women in her mid 20s. My bf of a few years has started spanking me whenever I misbehave or have an unpleasant, bratty attitude. It's kinda embarrassing because the possibility of our neighbors hearing me whining and pleading while getting a spanking is something that I dread. On a few occasions I had to be taken to the car after dinner to the restaurant parking lot for a bare bottom spanking over my bf's lap in the back seat of the car. Getting a spanking in public is definitely embarrassing but the worst time was once when people who were parked near us saw me being spanked. Usually no one sees but that time was so embarrassing especially because one of the guys of the group yelled "spank that ass"...It was very embarrassing because I knew they could see my bare bottom bouncing and squirming as my bf lit my butt up until it was very hot and red, my pants and panties down mid calf like a little naughty girl about to kick her bottoms off while getting an extremely thorough spanking. The most embarrassing part is that the spankings actually work and improve my bad attitudes and sometimes rude manner. To hear my bf say "I know what you need and you're gonna get it soon enough" makes my butt tingle and face flush.
I am 36 and my husband paddles me bare bottom and my stepdad occasionally takes his belt to my bare bottom.
I grew up in the 50's and 60's and my mom was a very firm believer in spanking naughty children, when needed. The pre-spanking preparation and ritual was always a part of a spanking from mom. First, she would state what I had done to earn a spanking, then she asked,"now what do I have to do." Next she would sit down and call me over to her, pat her lap and say "over you go." She would help me get into position across her lap and then ask, "do you understand why I am going to spank you." I would tell her the reason and then mom would ask me if I was comfortable. When I told her I was comfortable, she always said, "okay, here we go." Then she would begin the spanking, which always consisted of either 10 swats or 20 swats, depending on the reason for the spanking. My mom gave me many spankings during my formative years, always using this procedure. She always spanked over her lap with the palm of her hand, but very firmly. She was a good mother, and I can honestly say that every spanking she ever gave me, I deserved. My mother has been gone for more than 20 years, but I still remember learning many lessons right across her lap. I got my last spanking from my mother just two days before my 19th birthday, and was told that I would never be "too old or too big to go over mom's lap." I absolutely believed her. Sometimes, I wish I could go across her lap again!!!
In a very happy marriage-- I once in a while get my bare butt padddled by my wife---It is for really outrageous conduct with my male friends of which my more religious wife objects----so there is never any question as to when it has to happen--- We both know at about the same time when a paddling has to make things right---I just bend over holding my shins--naked butt out there--and she paddles me and it hurts---I got it coming that is for sure---things are very good after its over---so it works fine for us----I guess I just bend my bare butt over holding shins cause my high school football coach paddled me that way!
Great marriage--great wife---For certain conduct with my male friends such as too much drinking it is just understood by both of us--I get my naked butt paddled at home--no argument from me--I got it coming I know-- I quick shower just bend over out of shower and she paddles my naked butt--I bend over and hold my shins and it hurts on my butt a lot----Since no one lese knows--no matter of shame or embarrassment as only two of us know It works for us
i am 27 years old and my husband is 63 years old. he always spanks me and i like it. i always ask for it. he is rough and sometimes i will just do something that will make him angry so that he can spanks me
yes U get paddled bare once in a while---It is with in a very good and strong marriage--My behaviors with my guy friends sometimes really offends my wife's more religious standards--there is never any argument We both seem to know at the same time---when a paddling has to settle things. I want it over asap- and so it happens I take a quick shower and just bend over and hold my shins and she paddles my naked butt and IT HURTS on my butt ALOT !But things return to real good very quick Since only the two of us know there is no quesxtion of any embarrassment or shaming--its just a very quick way to settle things it works for us!
My dad says that I have to be 25 years old then he will stop spanking me
My name is Sara and I am 19 years old girl, my father still spanks me nude and my two brothers watch me nude all the time, they also take pictures of me. My dad spanks me 25 times at least then he tells me to stand all of the day nude and says me to clean the house while I am nude my brothers freind and my dad friends saw me naked. When my dad spanks me I get wet a lot, he some times clean it my Vegania with an old t-shirt I be very imparesed. I like being spanked and i am a Nudist so it's ok to be nude In front of my family.
I guess it depends on who you are. I spank my wife when she needs it and she appreciates it. She has a wicked temper and makes impulsive decisions sometimes and a spanking gets her head straight. She also likes that I have that authority over her. Don't get me wrong, we have a very democratic replationship, but she prefers that I am the last word on things.
I still get spanked from my dad I am 23 hairbrush paddle hand belt I don't think I should get them anymore as I am too old but he disagrees anyone else feel the same
Lazydaisy, just your name indicates that spankings definitely are needed, and you, Young Lady, will never be too old to be spanked. In fact, if you are lucky, the man who you will end up spending the rest of your life with should be able to spank you, as well.
Michael
After I graduated from college, I used to hang out with a girl who was my age, 19 or 20 at the time. I was at her house one day and we were talking about doing something we shouldn't. She said if she got caught her dad would spank her. I said "you're too old for that." She said "no, I'm not." I wish I had pressed her for more details but I didn't.
For me it's never a want ... it's a necessity. I have a 'little' within me that definitely needs the discipline and sometimes the pure punishment of having my bare bottom turned over my 'Daddy's' knee for a sound spanking. When my 'little' starts to get out of control, my Daddy can firmly tell me that he will spank me but if it's not early enough then it seems that a spanking is required. From the moment he tells me I have a spanking coming I know, from past experience, that my pants and panties are soon going to be tugged down and sometimes he might make me stand in the corner, bare bottom before he actually spanks me or he spanks me and then sends me to the corner. If I contest it, any of it, I know he'll spank me again and harder or longer.
I need the checks and balance of being spanked when my 'little' becomes naughty.
I've even had my pants and panties taken down and spanked over my Daddy's knee, in public.
It's a quicker spanking, in public, but it's really embarrasing and teaches me to be obedient but not enough to avoid the inevitable proper spanking once we get home.
For the sake of your curiosity, I have been spanked in the park, at the movies, at the airport, in the car in a parking lot and my Daddy doesn't think anything is wrong with it. If somebody happens by and stops to watch, he just calls out that he is my Daddy and I am his naughty 'little' girl who needs the immediate discipline while he continues to spank me. He has never been reported for spanking me and has never been told to stop but of course it's not a complete spanking either. My Daddy never believes in spanking over clothes ... spankings are always on my bare bottom. I know that. Like I said .., Sometimes my 'little' gets out of control and that's what works for stopping it.
Spankings work wonders for my 'little' ... who happens to be housed in a 50+ adult female.
When I moved back in with my mom at 25, I found myself being given the ultimatum of "live by my rules or get out!" And my mom is old fashioned.... She didn't hesitate to wash my mouth out with soap before taking my pants down and giving me a long hard dose of her belt. It wasn't uncommon for me to be taken to the bathroom to get a severe mouth soaping for swearing, back talking, or smoking and then to find myself bent over with my pants down getting a good hard strapping from mom. Even now that I moved out and am in my 30s, I still find myself getting soaped and belted by her about once or twice a year
Spanking for discipline is not abuse. I am 42 yrs old man and I have always been spanked by my dad as a punishment. In fact my sons have turned out to be much better behaved than me due to my dad's spanking and he has transferred his skills onto them. Now I get the spankings not just by my dad but also by my sons for misbehaving. Its embarassing being dragged around by my teenage sons while they pull down my pants and spank my bottom red but I guess thats needed for me so as not to turn into a brat.
Unfortunately, it's been about six years now since my last over-the-knee, bare bottom spanking. As passionate as I am about having my bottom paddled, it'll likely remain left up to me to apply the brush. I've been doing it for 50 years, so yeah, I know what I want (in the way of feeling that I've been soundly spanked) and I know how to get it. The female lap became my place of worship, but that doesn't mean I can't 'hold services' where I am. I was born to be spanked, and just yesterday, I enjoyed my version of being born again. ;-) All it takes is my contour body brush and the privacy to apply it to my creamy smooth, jiggly backside. Mmmmm, love it!!!!!!!!
a good old fashioned spanking for over 60's 70's even 80's makes them realize they cannot be naughty and get away with it and their bottoms still has real feelings from hand even but the old instruments of punisment used when they were naughty children truly get the message home to them recently I watched while this 80 old was put through his paces. toach your toes, drop your pants and he sure was red all over
I am a 50 year old male female want to be and I deserve need severe spankings. We had our first session Thursday and the lord showed me this is needed. Bought her a big paddle and hopping I get what I deserve....................................................
I have known that the lord knows I deserve them for my bad will it continue? I am hoping
Yes, I am an adult and believe over 18 is adult for a good spanking then upto 60/70/or 80 for those who are strong both genders male/female I am a male of 68 years of age I have been spanked as an adult it was effective and taught me the lesson I was suppose to learn from getting spanked/strapped a child/adolecent. Good reading and learning from comments made above Fratom
I love this line of conversation . Makes me feel more "normal" in my own spanking relationship . Here's the link to my similar story.
http://isitnormal.com/story/is-it-normal-that-i-love-hating-being-spanked-by-my-frankie-187919/
My wife recently smacked my bottom and grounded me for 2 weeks, which means being in bed at 7pm for being home later than I said I would be. So for 2 weeks I got home from work was given a bath and tea, then before I was put to bed a bed time drink and toilet and then tucked in for night . I was only allowed out of bed to wee in the bowl under the bed. It was embarrassing to be put to bed early and if my wife thinks I have misbehaved she has threatened to do it again. VB
I am almost 42 years old and female in IN. i get spanked regularly by my husband and we have five kids lol although we do not believe in spanking children He believes it keeps me submissive and helps me to remember He is in charge so yes i do feel it is normal for adult women to be spanked ask my sore bottom how often it thinks i will mouth off at my husband again...
In a long and very happy marriage i get my naked butt paddled once or twice a yr by my wife----Its for something really outrageous--and there is no disagreement when its got to happen---Its right out of the shower and my bare butt sure hurts when i am getting it---and at that time i am thinking I WILL NEVER NEED THIS AGAIN----but six months to a yr later---I need it again---Some have mentioned it being sexual--Our sex life is very good but I assure you when i am getting my butt paddled sex is the last thing on my mind---I agree I got it coming----but I am still nervous right before---A question for others----It is a total secret between my wife and I---Is it a secret for other married couples?
My next door neighbor has allowed her 34 year old daughter to move back home. She spanks her regularly for sassing back and failure to do chores. Although she doesn't spank her in public, she scolds her in public and lets everyone know that her daughter will be spanked soundly when they get home. Her daughter blushes beet red but never answers back. When her mother is ready to go home, she says "OK naughty girl. Time foe mommie to spank your bare bottom." I wish I could be a fly on the wall after they get home.
When I moved back in with my mom at 25, I found myself being given the ultimatum of "live by my rules or get out!" And my mom is old fashioned.... She didn't hesitate to wash my mouth out with soap before taking my pants down and giving me a long hard dose of her belt. It wasn't uncommon for me to be taken to the bathroom to get a severe mouth soaping for swearing, back talking, or smoking and then to find myself bent over with my pants down getting strapped, caned, or paddled by mom. After going through that in my 20s, i did find myself frequently feeling guilty and deserving to be punished as I got older and didn't live up to her or my expectations. Eventually i got the courage to ask my mom to give me a good mouth soaping and a long hard bare bottom belting...she gave me much more than i asked for, but i deserved it and as long as she gives me discipline, it lets me know she cares. She had me gather a fresh bundle of switches which she later took to my bare bottom for a very hard 30 strokes and for 3 days straight she cleaned my mouth out and strapped me to tears. Even now that I moved out and am in my 30s, I still find myself asking her to punish me sometimes.
I don't know why anyone is here and signed up to comment if you are against this.
There are still many adults who need to be spanked to keep them going in the right direction. If we don't get them we veer off track and not always intentionally.
Abuse is abuse, when is it an agreed upon situation beforehand then it is expected and not an abuse.
I try to live as I feel I should, but every now and then I could use a good hard spanking to keep me going the way I want to. For example....I have a bad habit of putting off things I want to get done. If someone gave me a time frame and I didn't get to it, I would be spanked for it. OTK on the bare ass with a paddle preferably or an instrument of the spankers choosing. Then I know someone cares enough to make sure I stick to my word on getting things done when I say I will.
I'm not looking for someone to spank me daily for no reason at all.....that I would consider abuse....
I know I am new here....but I thought it would be a place to talk about this topic without being put down for it...
I think that being an adult and fantasizing about being spanked is perfectly normal, and much more common than people would think. There are also adults out there, myself included, that still feel the "need" to be spanked for real, as in leg kicking, tear producing, bare bottom spanking like they got when they were growing up. Not surprisingly, it's only within the anonymity of the internet that folks that "need" a spanking feel safe enough to talk openly about what makes them tick. That being said, I think what isn't normal, at least statistically- which doesn't mean it's wrong, is to actually be getting spankings as an adult. I think a very small percentage of the people that fantasize about or feel the "need" to be spanked as punishment actually ever act on it.
People need to be spanked, but "ever act on it." That description absolutely encompasses my longtime desire. I am a 71 year old man who was spanked over my sister-in -law's knee on my 25th birthday. That memory of that spanking has stayed with me for all these years, and I would really like her to spank me again. She lives in Pennsylvania and I live in Missouri. We will be together for a week in May, and I am trying to think of a tactful way to let her know that I would really like to go over her knee, as I did forty-six years ago. She is still in good health, and I am certain she is still capable of giving a good spanking, and probably would actually enjoy warming my bottom if she knows that I have the desire for her to do so. Any suggestions on how I might best approach this subject, without her thinking I'm just an old crazy man???
Was talking about something similar recently. Normal, dunno, am paddled by wife, non-sexual discipline. Done privately, but most folks know.
I'm a 58 yo man and crave having other guys strip me naked, and spank me over their lap like a naughty boy. I end up humping their legs and cumming during the spanking and then get spanked harder. I could be spanked several times a day and not get tired of it.
Got another spanking yesterday afternoon for talking back. This time just with my dads hand but it did sting and walked around with a red butt.
I am a male and still live home with my parents. My dad still feels its okay to spank me still since I live under his roof. If I talk back, do not do chores he does still spank me on my bare rearend.
i am a 50 year old divorced male. My ex or her adult daughter (late 30's) come over and spank me whenever they want. They have also spanked me at their friend's homes. I am made to wear punishment tights or control panties.
I live in a similar hell. I am in my 50's. My wife or her adult daughter also spank me whenever they want. This has gone on for over 20 years. I am also have to wear bright colorful panties, tights, and high waisted girdle or a one piece corset. I also have been spanked at my daughter's house, their friend's home, and where I work. I am the laughing stock of this community.
At age 30 my wife tricked me by saying she was giving me a birthday spanking but held me Down sat on my legs and wailed on me giving me what she felt I earned! Using her bare hand she left full handprints on both cheeks. She was full of smiles watching me wiggle and squirm!
Similar yet different. I've had an interest in spanking for years. Finally at age 68 am seeking a disciplinarian to administer adult spanking. I've found someone but wondering if it is normal or wise to be pursuing this..
I am 67 and still enjoy a good spanking. My wife doesn't give it to me too often anymore, but I sure wish that she would.
Try it...but just be careful like Mockduck says. I'm just a few years younger than you but have been spanked most of my life....first by my father and now my husband. Enjoy!
You say you've "found someone." At the age of 68, I'd be careful. There's nothing wrong at all in your wanting to be spanked, but don't surrender your control over how you want it to happen.
I live in Mi, an while growing up my parents believed in spanking. It was a joke to tell us girls boyfriends"if they get out of line bend them over your knee and give them a good whipping". Well neeedless to say I had terrible behaviors. Always being late, lying if i wanted to do something i knew would cause a arguement. I got caught the day i was 2hrs late and than with people i shouldn't of been with. I got it good to for the next week i got the belt everyday. When i'm feeling over whelmed i still call my ex for a good spanking. He is familiar with what i need, and how he should spank me, as to he is the one who decided to start it with me. My sisters where not to happy when he told their husbands of the results of giving a good hard spanking. But on occassions i still feel i need my bottom sore for a few days.
hi, i am also wondering whats normal. here is some backstory.. i was molested by my real father, so my godfather has assumed the father postition. but he says he is "old fashioned" and im never too old to be spanked. here is the thing though, sometimes its like hours or just 20 mins, every little thing i do wrong. he makes me wear a dress and panty hose, sometime he records it to "make sure we have agreements on camera" and even if im perfect, i have to have a maitenence spanking to make sure i stay good. now since i was hurt by my real father in innapropriate ways, i dont know whats normal anymore.. this situation sounds more like a fetish.. what do you guys think, please get back to me asap!
Yes, of course it's a fetish. Your godfather gets aroused by spanking and controlling you. There is no doubt about it. I don't know how old you are. You do have options, whether you are an adult or a minor. The suggestion that you would like to talk to a counselor about your feelings regarding the subject might put a stop to it.
i do not know my Husband allows me to wear jeans now nut 2012 was the first time i ever wore them as a child and as a young adult i only ever wore dresses and skirts so that was the normal for me and my daughters all wore dresses and skirts until about that same time when we were allowed pants ... my husband does "reminder" and "maintenance" spankings for me also
Where I live, it's not considered normal, but for me, it perfectly is. Honestly, if my Husband didn't, I would walk all over Him. ...I probably wouldn't even want to be with Him, to tell you the truth.
This past weekend my mother-in-law came over to see how I was doing as my wife was out of town. She said I sassed her one to many times as she stripped me naked in the kitchen and marched me out to the barn for another barn burner. Once out their she sat on a bale of hay and turned me over her knee for a warm up hand spanking. That completed she bent me over a saddle on a saddle stand and took a strap off the wall and gave me an A number 1 strapping as I kicked and promised and finally begged her to let me up. When she finally finished she took some lineament off a shelf and started soothing my red raw cheeks when she noticed me getting a little excited. She asked what this was as she answered her own question. It's an utter, and with that she put more lubricant into her hands grabbed a hold and started milking it. I tried getting up but she pushed me back down and proceeded to massage my prostate as I lost control. 2/16/2012
I see your postings all over the net. I can't tell if you enjoy these spankings. No one in my life knows and I would be humiliated if they did. But if another guy who was spanked like me knew it would perhaps make it seem a little less usual
I have read your postings on many sites. I don't know if they are true or your fantasies but I have been really handled by my mother in law. I am not submissive in daily life but my mother in law has really got Into my head as well as my behind. Since the first time she cornered me and tanned me I knuckle under whenever she tells me I am in for it. She always leaves me with a lasting sensation usually uncomfortable sitting for a few days. I get no sympathy from my wife.
My wife and mother-in-law are much bigger and stronger than I am and both have no trouble stripping me and turning me over their knees even though my mother-in-law is 78 and I am 55. Both were raised on a farm in NC. I have been spanked in our bedroom, living room, kitchen, barn, out by the pool and bent over our rail fence in the yard. One day our FedEx person witnessed me over my wife's knee on our patio getting spanked naked as my wife told her to bring over the package for her to sign. My wife then put me over her knee and had her spank me as well. 1/2012.
I'm 34 live in Chicago.I have a real desire to b in a relationship with a woman who would give me otk spanking when i do wrong.The woman i'm with doesnt,which we've had long discussions about me wanna a dwc type but she agreed n dont do anything.Should I leave her?
I am a 41 year old man, I have been spanked by my wife's mother several times. Each time she has found that I have done something disrespectful she has subjected me to the same ritual she used on her kids. Bare bottom over her knee spanked with a hair brush,she says since I act like a child she will treat me like one. I have been reduced to tears and she makes me stand in the corner with my pants at my ankles. If I touch my rear end or move she spanks me again. I have been threatened with her telling my friends and kids if I refuse to submit!. After the last spanking I could not sit comfortably for two days.
Bartstone has motivated me to reply to his spanking. I am a 36 year old male and my wife's mother is a beautiful 56 year old dominant female. Ten years ago before her daughter and I were wed I fantasized being spanked by my wife's mother. Well once we married my fantasy became reality as my wife's mother has spanked me whenever I was disobedient, disrespectful, or did anything that angered her daughter. Her mother leads me to her bedroom with paddle in hand and sits on the side of the bed and bares her solid thighs and orders me to bare my rear. When I have complied she drapes me over her left thigh with my chest on the bed and places her right leg over my legs locking her ankles and rendering me helpless. She thenhammerlocks my right arm and with my legs scissored between her strong legs I am unable to move as she takes the paddle to my quivering burning rear. She spanks until I am begging for her mercy, apologizing for my misdeed and crying like a child. It is always a painful spanking that is embarrassing and humiliating knowing my wifes watching. When the spanking ends and she releases my arm and frees me from her leg lock she orders me to stand in corner
until she decides when I can rejoin them in the living room.
I'm sorry but this is just bizarre. First it is illegal for an adult to hit another adult. Second, for your mother-in-law to spank you is kind of sick. I would recommend both of you get some professional psychological help.
After a long period with little conflict my mother In law called me and told me I better come to her house. I knew I was in for it but didn't know why. I drove over nervously and when I arrived she greeted me with a short leather strap in her hand. She started explaining that I had been stopped for speeding and was issued a ticket for no securing my son in his car seat. I barely heard a word as I was distracted by the strap which I had not seen before. Now I know she finds excuses to punish me but until know she has used a hair brush which hurts plenty, and had always wrestled me over her knee. She explained that because I had endangered her grand child she was going to make sure I never did that again. After scolding me she ordered me to lower my pants and she bent me over the sofa and started strapping me. I jerked up and started to pull away as the sting was more than I could take. She grabbed my ear and twisting it said I was making things worse, and she forced me back over the sofa and strapped me until I was promising anything she asked and begging for mercy. She let me up and as before stood me in the corner .i can tell you for certain that I will never make that mistake again. It was said earlier that she enjoys spanking me and its clear that's true, but there is not even the slightest hint that she is anything but serious
That's an interesting relationship you've got with your mother-in-law. She obviously enjoys spanking you, her hairbrush warming your naughty bare bottom across her knee. Mmm, and then putting you in the corner afterwards. Even if it's only a fantasy, it's right up my alley. ;-)
I had had fantasies about being spanked long before the first time she spanked me. There was nothing exciting about this. I would hate to be outed and she knows she has me. I like reading about other people's experiences and have hoped to find another man in my situation because it feels really strange.
Oh my dear god, what have I stumbled upon. This is BDSM by a different name. Love yourselves, people. You don't need someone to physically abuse you to be a good person.
utah eh? now why doesn't that suprise me.
get some counselling for your bf before he gets tired of hitting your butt and decides to start on your face.