Are they friends?

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I think I'm quiet confident and at school I have a groups of friends. When we have half term or summer holidays my two closest friend always says there busy everyday but I no there not busy as There always with there boyfriend/ girlfriend. They both always put love before friends. Another one never meets up... Like he says he will come deffinetely and won't come and make an excuse up. I have a few other really close friends too who do meet up but I want to see my other friends of they are my friends, Is this normal, thanks :)

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Based on 38 votes (24 yes)
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  • Savmagic
    13 years ago

    People always choose the boyfriend or girlfriend over the friends. That's just the way it is.

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  • drewbster
    13 years ago

    Ya this is normal and it is really crappy. Have a talk w your friend and tell them "chances are our friendship will last longer than your relationship so don't shut me out of your life like this!" Have a backbone.

    Let them know how you feel. If they keep doing it then just delete them from your life. You're better than that!!! They need to understand you have feelings too.

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  • randomguy21
    13 years ago

    Okay... not to bash on you, but you should use better grammar, I had a hard time going through that.

    Yeah, love usually takes priority, but they shouldn't lie and make up excuses. Maybe reassess them as friends or find new ones?

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  • jen_guirado
    14 years ago

    i do that :/..im sorry but it just comes naturally. its not that i dont wnat to spend time with them its jsut i rahter spend it with him <3...sounds horrible i know

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  • BrightEyes
    14 years ago

    Well, it is and it isn't. I know "putting love before friendship" sounds awful and it isn't fair but that is what happens sometimes. Maybe you could get a significant other and go on double dates with them. Either that, or look into some new friends.

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