No straight, emotionally mature man gives a damn what a former male friend might decide to do with his penis, he wouldn't be obsessively interested in a woman the guy is involved with, he wouldn't give a damn about the age of the woman and he certainly wouldn't even consider crashing their wedding and making a scene.
I can imagine some pathetic mid-teen girl saying and doing the things you admit, but you're an adult - in chronological terms anyway - so it's seriously weird, and maybe even pathological.
What you say makes it clear you had - and still have - an obsessive crush on this guy, but it also sounds like you're so deep in denial about your sexual orientation and your feelings for him that you can't admit that.
I wouldn't be at all surprised if the guy picked up on your feelings at some level, and that's why you suddenly stopped seeing him and he's made no effort to stay in touch. The evidence is that he's straight - or at least believes that he is enough to marry a woman - so he may well have vanished without notice and ghosted you because he was uncomfortable about having a clingy dude constantly lurking around and giving off gay signals.
You need to forget about the guy and let the dude live his life as he chooses, and you also need to take a serious look at what all this ridiculous, irrational, obsessive shit is really all about.
Are they engaged?
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No straight, emotionally mature man gives a damn what a former male friend might decide to do with his penis, he wouldn't be obsessively interested in a woman the guy is involved with, he wouldn't give a damn about the age of the woman and he certainly wouldn't even consider crashing their wedding and making a scene.
I can imagine some pathetic mid-teen girl saying and doing the things you admit, but you're an adult - in chronological terms anyway - so it's seriously weird, and maybe even pathological.
What you say makes it clear you had - and still have - an obsessive crush on this guy, but it also sounds like you're so deep in denial about your sexual orientation and your feelings for him that you can't admit that.
I wouldn't be at all surprised if the guy picked up on your feelings at some level, and that's why you suddenly stopped seeing him and he's made no effort to stay in touch. The evidence is that he's straight - or at least believes that he is enough to marry a woman - so he may well have vanished without notice and ghosted you because he was uncomfortable about having a clingy dude constantly lurking around and giving off gay signals.
You need to forget about the guy and let the dude live his life as he chooses, and you also need to take a serious look at what all this ridiculous, irrational, obsessive shit is really all about.
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Now that I realise OP is a guy this is probably right.