If you actually thought those things were happening, I would be concerned, but you say that you recognize they're not real, just fantasies.
Fantasies of showing off sexually (exhibitionism) or being secretly observed, or having multiple people involved in sexual activities are not that unusual!
Still, it sounds like you've had some emotional issues in your life that have posed challenges for you, and perhaps made the relationship more difficult. Find a good therapist who can help you understand yourself, understand what you need in a relationship and be in a good place in your life.
Are these fantasies normal?
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If you actually thought those things were happening, I would be concerned, but you say that you recognize they're not real, just fantasies.
Fantasies of showing off sexually (exhibitionism) or being secretly observed, or having multiple people involved in sexual activities are not that unusual!
Still, it sounds like you've had some emotional issues in your life that have posed challenges for you, and perhaps made the relationship more difficult. Find a good therapist who can help you understand yourself, understand what you need in a relationship and be in a good place in your life.