Are there any guys like this?

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Just watched Titanic. Although not one of my favorites, I still get bummed out whenever Jack is on screen. Why? Because he's sooo kind and fun and I'm worried that I'll never find a guy like that. I don't care what they say, not all girls like bad boys. I just want a boy who is kind to me and really, really truly loves me. Someone who can have fun but will also be considerate of me (I am well aware that even a great guy won't be like that all the time and that's fine. Guys are humans). I worry that I'll never find someone like that. Are guys like that real? Is it normal I feel this way?

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  • Smith4
    12 years ago | pl

    I find it hard to find a chick who doesnt like bad boys this day and age...and when I do they are going out with someone....always the fucking way. And yes there is guys like that out there...me.

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  • AmvEditor
    12 years ago | pl

    Woman have the worst stories, about their underwear , pets , and dream boyfriends.

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  • stonecutters93
    12 years ago | pl

    I'm with smith4 on this one. I also find it hard to find a chick who doesn't like bad boys in this day. I've always been considered a nice guy but in the end I never get the girl because I just don't have that "asshole" thing going on. We do exist, we just get over looked.

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    • sh69
      12 years ago | pl

      I just wanna say I am sooo grateful to you MEN supporting us and being considerate of our feelings. There are definately a lot of fish in the sea but most of their fins are already scarred from some other bitches hook. Look ong and hard and I assure you he/she WILL come... eventually. Ive found two and hopefully this second is the last most sensitive amazing masculine guy for muah :)
      GOOD LUCK EVERY1!!

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago | pl

      I've never seen the appeal of "bad boys". I mean, why would you want to have a romantic, intimate relationship with a jerk?

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      • stonecutters93
        12 years ago | pl

        I know what you mean, but I've found that most girls always say they want to be with a nice caring guy who will treat them right, but in reality they end up with the guy that treats them like shit. This is just from my experience, having been the "go to" guy I always hear how girls get treated like shit, when all that time I'm there, and I feel like I never get noticed.

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  • Zoroaster
    12 years ago | pl

    It's normal, yes, but you really can't be looking too hard or it will never happen. Being a guy, finding a girl that isn't really bossy and laid back is very difficult to find. I hate having to text them all the time with what I'm doing or where I am when we aren't together. Hard to find for both sexes, but, don't give up!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Do you know why you will most likely never find people like that? because you will only go for a guy that is like that with a good appearance. You do realise that there are plenty of guys like that in the world but dont fool yourself if you think that you dont mind if their not good looking because there are alot of guys out their with great fun personalities, they just dont look good.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago | pl

      I'm not talking about appearance. Obviously I would like someone I'm attracted to, but they don't have to look like a movie star. Why would you assume I expected a DiCaprio look-a-like?

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  • dodongos
    10 years ago | pl

    Girls ALWAYS say they want this kind of guy, but they NEVER really mean it. Trust me. You'll meet a guy just like that, and you'll get bored of him and think he's a faggot, and just want some hard lovin'.

    You know how I know? Because it happened to me way too much.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    me?
    and can I know you? ;) :P :D

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  • Rapidfire000
    12 years ago | pl

    I agree with ch3ls3abot she made a good point there are guys out there just turn some stones over that you normally wouldn't. And if you do I bet you $20 that you will find what u are looking for

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  • Ch3ls3ab0t
    12 years ago | pl

    Hey! No worries! Seriously. Don't give up. I promise those guys exist. Never ever settle. Keep your hopes and standards high, but make something else a priority. Put yourself and your goals first and don't worry about guys. I had just decided to do that when I started college and you know what? As soon as I did I met this great guy. Sweet, kind, funny, smart, caring, very attractive, Jack Dawson x 1000! Lol. We've been together a year and a half, are engaged, and never been happier. I used to think the same way you did, so like the movie says, "never let go." Your Jack is out there, just focus on being the best Rose you can be for now and he'll find you! Hope this helps. :].

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    You think Jack is great? Jeez, I feel like I'm thousand times better than he was in that movie. On another note, titanic 2 will suck.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago | pl

    Urgh, I know. Those clingy, high-maintenance girls give all of us a bad name. Personally, I couldn't care less if my guy texted me 24/7. In fact, it would annoy me. I hate all of those sitcoms where the guy will accidently say someone is hot or an "oops" and the girl gets pissed. So what if you say someone is hot? It doesn't mean a) you don't think I'm hot or b) you're going to cheat on me with her.

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  • sir.kirk
    12 years ago | pl

    Titanic is such a shit movie.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago | pl

      Yeah, it really is. It was the only thing on TV >.<

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  • SoccerStud88
    12 years ago | pl

    women say one thing and fall for another. yall cant help it it just happens naturally.

    Plus, this wouldnt be the first time someone wishes to have a movie-like life

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