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For some this may be ironic with the idea that all guys want is sex, but it seems to be toerh other way at the moment for me.
I'd like to know if there are girls out there aged between 18-22 years that are looking for a real relationship because the girls I've met all just seem to want sex right about now.
Will I just have to wait? Also i can't be bothered with making poll answers other than yes or no so a comment would be nice.
I'd extend those ages. I'd say between 14 and 30. The older girls I've dated (25, 28) the one wanted a one night stand, and the other was sleeping with 2 other guys, and kept us only vaguely aware of each other. My younger cousin said girls he tried to date were doing the same things to him. Its just the next stage of culture. At one point women who showed an ankle were considered flappers, so now a days, its normal to be with 15 men before the flapper title starts. Girls don't appreciate nice guys anymore. Especially when the guys try to do things for them, like open doors. I was yelled at for that, " I can do it, I'm not invalid." Ohwell. I'd rather be a nice guy and be single, than date a bitch.
hmm... maybe it's just the type of girls you're attracted to? look for different kinds of girls they're like cheese! ^-^ Going around tasting each one will make you want to vomit, you have to look at each cheese individually see their ingredients and if this cheese is actually worth your time.
God i feel the same way. All the guys where I live are way too advanced for me. They've been having sex since we were in like elementary school and I'm still a virgin. I must admit it's getting harder to keep guys away lately but I honestly just want a sweet boy who has a good heart, good intentions, and his innocence. Is that too much to ask?
ME!! When i asked my ex why she chose me out of the almost 30 guys she had after her. She said it’s because I am the nicest person she has ever met. Than one day she left me saying that I was to innocent for her -.-‘
she was my 1st girlfriend, i was 19 she was 17. Practically what happened was one night she slept over my house and we were cuddling and stuff. As i wanted to move on she tells me she is scared. i tell her: " it’s okay.. We don’t have to do it if you don’t want to" so I stop myself. The day after she was really happy and all but three days after that she told me she wanted to end it because she feels that I am too innocent for her and so she leaves me for some fucked up DJ druggy fag that is a total jerk. She also said that I look too young which makes her feel like abusing a little boy -.- took her fucking 4 months to realize that I look too young for her. Funny thing is that I’m fucking 6.1 foot tall. I am more than a freaking head taller than her for fucks sakes.
I practically gave her my full trust and she betrays me buy dumping me right after for some asshole jerk. it things like these that make me hate women.
My friends always tell me: “why don’t you just fuck them and leave them like every normal guy?”. They are right! Probably this wouldn’t have happened to me if I did have that sort of mentality. But I just don’t like to be like that. It’s not me. One night stands don’t mean anything to me. And I don’t like to use women. I care for them and that’s what I do wrong. This real but sad twisted law of nature.
I’m still a virgin because I refuse to lose my virginity to a slut. So far I only see sluts. Unfortunately i also have a curse of being a really picky guy.
If you look for girls in clubs and expect anything other than a one-night stand then you are sadly deluded. If you only go for hot girls, well, a lot (NOT ALL) are just sluts who don't want a relationship because they can get what they want without one. In high school and college, most girls don't want a relationship any way, because they are too immature to respect nice guys.
i think a lot of girls nowadays feel pressure to have sex with guys because they think thats what guys want.
and with the media and things the way they are now sex has less and less meaning and all poeople want is immediate gratification.
people noawadays are finding a sense of fulfillment in things other than love, like sex drugs tv computer ect and it is really getting bad. i can feel your pain
I'm a girl looking for a real relationship and not just sex. But I don't hang out in bars. I do volunteer work and go to church regularly. I'd love to meet a nice guy, but I'm too old fashioned for today's men. You're supposed to have sex by the third date, and I'm not like that. I'd rather get to know someone before jumping into bed.
There are some girls out there under your age preference who wants a real relationship but when they are into it, they just don't know how to handle. Meaning to say, emotional maturity is the best to sought after.
If you know the Law of Attraction, that could give you an idea why the girls you've met are all for sex.