Let me suggest something that brought my wife of 30+ years to life sexually. I sent her a copy of "My Secret Garden" by Nancy Friday on pdf and asked if she would be open to exploring it with me. Everyday she would send an emai that expressed the fantasies that she could relate to commenting on them. I in return would comment back to her on those as well as on the ones that had caught my attention. I don't expect that we will act on any of these, but it has been incredible the number of them that we can create by play acting. The other real upside is that we have went from having sex 1-2 times every couple of days to everyday and sometimes more than once in a day.
Are sexual differences worth divorce?
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Let me suggest something that brought my wife of 30+ years to life sexually. I sent her a copy of "My Secret Garden" by Nancy Friday on pdf and asked if she would be open to exploring it with me. Everyday she would send an emai that expressed the fantasies that she could relate to commenting on them. I in return would comment back to her on those as well as on the ones that had caught my attention. I don't expect that we will act on any of these, but it has been incredible the number of them that we can create by play acting. The other real upside is that we have went from having sex 1-2 times every couple of days to everyday and sometimes more than once in a day.