I don't know? Is losing your wife of 16 years (who you presumably love) worth the chance (which is far from certain, considering your age) of finding someone who will enact your fantasies for you? Is your relationship worth less than one fantasy?
Keep trying to persuade her if you like but I seriously doubt she'll ever change her mind. Respect her right to choose what she does and forget persuading her.
Cheat on her and expect her to divorce you. Even if divorce is the alternative, cheating is still not the compassionate option. Don't cheat.
What most people do when their partners have different sexual fantasies is what your wife suggests: leave it as a fantasy. I would suggest accepting it and masturbating.
Are sexual differences worth divorce?
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I don't know? Is losing your wife of 16 years (who you presumably love) worth the chance (which is far from certain, considering your age) of finding someone who will enact your fantasies for you? Is your relationship worth less than one fantasy?
Keep trying to persuade her if you like but I seriously doubt she'll ever change her mind. Respect her right to choose what she does and forget persuading her.
Cheat on her and expect her to divorce you. Even if divorce is the alternative, cheating is still not the compassionate option. Don't cheat.
What most people do when their partners have different sexual fantasies is what your wife suggests: leave it as a fantasy. I would suggest accepting it and masturbating.