Are people really that nosy?

So earlier today I went to the drive thru to get some food because I was starving and could not make it home without passing out. I went to a local chain drive thru and then parked my car in a lot and ate my food. Mind you, there are hardly any cars at this time because it is 6 PM and it’s dark and people are heading home. I like privacy so I parked in a safe quiet area to eat.. of course with my luck, 2 morons drive into the lot, slow down and stop literally right in front of my car. If I wanted to leave, I wouldn’t have been able to cause they basically blocked me in.. they just stared like deer in headlights. I gave them the WTF look and they just sat there and then realized they were being nosy and annoying.. then another car did the same thing only he parked RIGHT NEXT to my car in a space. SERIOUSLY!? There are hundreds of spots and ones under lights.. why come right next to me and annoy me. People are fking annoying. I’m sorry. I know the holidays are coming, but in all seriousness, do people not have any brains to realize, hey maybe this guy is parked here and wants to be on the phone or eat.. nah, I’m just gonna come right up his ass and stare at him eating. It was one of those guys with a punchable face too lol

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  • JellyBeanBandit

    Maybe you parked where their drug dealer normally parks, lol.

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    • nikkiclaire

      It could also have been car campers checking on them. People who live in cars look out for each other and maybe they didn't know who it was.

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    • 309uf2o38yf

      This was my guess right off the bat.

      They probably thought he had some candy for sale and were confused as to why he was ignoring them.

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      • Hardinawetdiaper

        Lololol

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    • DeeJay27

      Never thought about that.. saw a guy in his mid 50s didn’t think he was on the prowl for some buds 😂

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  • 309uf2o38yf

    ".. nah, I’m just gonna come right up his ass and stare at him eating. "

    I loled so hard I almost peed.

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    • Hardinawetdiaper

      Lolol

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  • I lost count of how many people I stare back at with a dirty look till they look away every single day. Can’t even go to walmart without being stared at constantly I’ve even had a few weirdos fallowing me. People annoy the fuck out of me too. I started carrying around a knife so if the dirty look don’t work lifting my shirt to show them the knife works. I hate nosey people.

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    • DeeJay27

      Are you a female? I see that a lot in those types of stores. I feel like weirdos tend to go to places like Walmart just to follow young women around. Perverts all over the damn place I swear

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      • Yeah and ik it’s disgusting.

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    • Doesnt sound like a good idea tbh. People might think you're some mad slasher and call the security.

      Anyways why do people stare at you constantly? Is there something to see?

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      • I’ve been doing it for years and have no problem. That’s the whole point I want to scare them off idrc if security is called that’s the least of my problems. If I feel safe with one and it gets people to quit staring that’s all that matters to me dude.

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    • 309uf2o38yf

      A knife might turn some on. I often wear a loose trench coat and still have pervs follow and proposition me even though there's literally nothing to see.

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      • If so I feel that won’t happen much doesn’t seem a common fetish thing to be turned on seeing someone have a knife. I hardly ever have to show anyone it because usually a dirty look does the job.

        My boyfriend even carries around a knife all the time and those he’s shown when he was stared at just quickly look away and don’t look again they know what’s up.

        Some day I’ll step my game up and get my license for a gun I wouldn’t show someone that but maybe position myself in a way it’s obvious I have one. They just think oh a short 12 year old looking girl she looks innocent enough. If someone were to fallow me and try to fuck with me I got no problem defending myself with a gun or knife. I least I’ll have something.

        And I always wear a sweatshirt and jeans I’m not reveiling when I'm in public they got no reason to be creeps and I got no reason to take it. Ik thats how they are and will continue but if I can get those people to leave me along for just a minute ik I got the control.

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        • 309uf2o38yf

          You carrying a knife and your boyfriend carrying a knife are two different things. Perverts aren't politically correct. Unfortunately usually anything a girl does is sexy to them.

          Be careful out there. Sometimes showing a knife is seen as a challenge and they will attack you.

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          • Did I say they were the same? Clearly not to the ones I’ve dealt with.

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    • brutus

      Lol. I carry an ice pick in my bag.

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      • Hardinawetdiaper

        Lol

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      • I got a machete in my car 😂.

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  • leggs91200

    Some people have no respect for privacy NOR personal space.
    Kind of like when my room mate uses the restroom in any public place, the door will be locked yet people keep jiggling the handle.

    The other day we were at a thrift store and there was like this group of people just standing outside the women's restroom staring at the door. A couple customers, employees, whoever.

    The public is a bunch of assholes. Of course some people seem happy as hell about "the end of privacy" but does that REALLY mean one cannot eat or go to the fuckin' restroom in peace anymore?

    I know sometimes people might stare because they are not used to seeing weird transgender people like me out and about. So when I notice someone staring, I smile real big and wave all goofy like I am Hoochie the clown or something.

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    • TerriAngel

      Leggs,
      People jiggle the door if we're not sure someone's in there or if the door just is closed.
      Sorry for staring.
      I try not to.
      You trans catch me off guard.
      I'm trying to figure your birth sex.
      Don't care, just curious.
      Some of you, are scary as hell.
      Either you're a feminine looking man, or an ugly woman.
      But, it is rude to stare.

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  • bogbrush

    So annoying, especially as you couldn't get out. In Goa it's seen as abnormal to be alone, and if the whole beach is empty and you pick a spot, I can guarantee within 10 minutes people will come and sit 2 inches away. I hate it when people sit next to me on the bus and there are plenty of empty spaces. Why can't they understand that some people love being alone. People eh!

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  • nikkiclaire

    I've had people shine their headlights straight at me for 20 minutes. People suck ass sometimes.

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    • DeeJay27

      Lmao what a bunch of assholes

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  • jethro

    Maybe they thought that you were gay and cruising the parking lots to give someone head. Do you look like a gay person who likes to suck?

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  • JuliPM

    "It was one of those guys with a punchable face too lol"

    dude you need to chill, people are annoying, find other pleace to eat, or lisen some LO-FI or something relaxing

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  • TerriAngel

    Unless you're diabetic.
    I dought you would have passed out without some junk food.
    That said, yes folks are dicks.
    Somehow many are wired to congregate in groups.
    Try parking your nice car somewhere.
    There can be 109 empty spots.
    Some shithead with a crap mobile will park right next to you.
    In your situation.
    Eat on the drive.
    Eat in the restaurant.
    Eat in car, ignore them.
    Eat in car, turn on Hi beams.

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  • Skyrim420

    OK, so these guys were obviously obstructing traffic (Blocking your car in, so you couldn't get out ), Which I'm pretty damn sure is illegal. What I would have done in this situation, is discretely call the police using something like OK Google, and tell them that there are cars that are surrounding you, blocking you, and that are harassing you and obstructing your vehicle. The cops would show up out of nowhere to them, and give them a really nice big ticket for obstructing traffic and harassing another motorist.

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  • Boojum

    Like Ellenna, my immediate reaction was to wonder if the guys were looking for a little action. You were sitting alone in a car in a dark place, and they may well have been making some assumptions about what you were doing out of view. It could be a gay hook-up place. Who knows? Maybe guys go there to watch each other whack off. The way you looked them made them eventually realise you weren't interested and they moved on.

    I understand that you like to eat in the privacy of your car, but maybe you might consider stopping in slightly less private places.

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  • Ellenna

    I've had a similar thing happen camping in the outback: there's a whole huge desert but idiots have to camp right alongside someone who set up camp before them. It's as if they want to be back in suburbia!

    However, I think you may be being a bit over sensitive in this case: you seem to feel it was aimed at you personally, but it may just have been a coincidence and they weren't in fact being nosy. Perhaps it's a dogging site????

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