actually you learn about your own sexuality when you learn that you have a different organ that the opposite gender.
Sigmond Freud talked about how boys develop their sexuality because they are disgusted by the vagina (because it looks like a mutilated penis) and live in fear of losing their penis...later on it becomes more about how subconsciously he is 'claiming' his mother and wants to steal her away from the father.
for girls when they realise the other gender has a penis she becomes jelous and thats the basis of her sexuality. then later on it becomes looking up to the dad as the protector
it does kind of make sense in a frightening way, but im not sure if i agree with freuds theory BUT i dont think i agree with yours...because if you think about when you were a baby or a young kid; you dont know what sex is, you dont even know what type of organ other people have down there, you are obvserving how your mother and father are treating you and eachother. babies and young poeple's sexuality is a very complicated thing because they dont have their hormones and bodies fully developed yet. its not as easy as just coming up with a theory, its very scientific. i even read that BEFORE genders discover that the 2 different sex organs that there are different stages of sexuality including anal and oral (obviously not with the same same definitions we would think of...more like when babies like to put things in their mouths or when kids become kind of obsessed with poop)
that why i think to turn gay, something has to be wrong because its not natural. i believe it is a mental disease that you develop because of a dysfunctional family. For example if you lived with a woman who 'wore the pants' in the family, maybe you would start to hate your penis. That sounds silly but at such a young age, ALL you know about sexuality is the fact that girls and boys have different 'thingys', you dont know what theyre used for, you just know that that is the difference between boys and girls and thats how you identify yourself.
what happens when your younger has a lot to do with sexuality...its like the butterfly effect. when youre older your sexuality only develops slightly like when you figure out you like some fetish or something, but when youre a kid its everything, its what you like and dont like, its how your treated, its how you feel about yourself...that all turns into sexuality.
because of it was something with genes and dna, gays would slowly die out since they dont contribute anything to humanity. and thats how nature works even if it doesnt sound so nice.
Are People Born Gay/Lesbian??
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actually you learn about your own sexuality when you learn that you have a different organ that the opposite gender.
Sigmond Freud talked about how boys develop their sexuality because they are disgusted by the vagina (because it looks like a mutilated penis) and live in fear of losing their penis...later on it becomes more about how subconsciously he is 'claiming' his mother and wants to steal her away from the father.
for girls when they realise the other gender has a penis she becomes jelous and thats the basis of her sexuality. then later on it becomes looking up to the dad as the protector
it does kind of make sense in a frightening way, but im not sure if i agree with freuds theory BUT i dont think i agree with yours...because if you think about when you were a baby or a young kid; you dont know what sex is, you dont even know what type of organ other people have down there, you are obvserving how your mother and father are treating you and eachother. babies and young poeple's sexuality is a very complicated thing because they dont have their hormones and bodies fully developed yet. its not as easy as just coming up with a theory, its very scientific. i even read that BEFORE genders discover that the 2 different sex organs that there are different stages of sexuality including anal and oral (obviously not with the same same definitions we would think of...more like when babies like to put things in their mouths or when kids become kind of obsessed with poop)
that why i think to turn gay, something has to be wrong because its not natural. i believe it is a mental disease that you develop because of a dysfunctional family. For example if you lived with a woman who 'wore the pants' in the family, maybe you would start to hate your penis. That sounds silly but at such a young age, ALL you know about sexuality is the fact that girls and boys have different 'thingys', you dont know what theyre used for, you just know that that is the difference between boys and girls and thats how you identify yourself.
what happens when your younger has a lot to do with sexuality...its like the butterfly effect. when youre older your sexuality only develops slightly like when you figure out you like some fetish or something, but when youre a kid its everything, its what you like and dont like, its how your treated, its how you feel about yourself...that all turns into sexuality.
because of it was something with genes and dna, gays would slowly die out since they dont contribute anything to humanity. and thats how nature works even if it doesnt sound so nice.