She sounds like she is addicted to shopping. If she has to take out "secret" cards then something is wrong. She needs counseling for her issue. It is pretty common, especially among women.
The way you described her I would swear it was my mil if she weren't already dead. She will love you regardless of whether you give her money but she will bust your chops. Just be firm and continue to give her love but not your paycheck. She is sick but she is your mother. Good luck.
Are my Mom's spending habits normal and should I give her my money?
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She sounds like she is addicted to shopping. If she has to take out "secret" cards then something is wrong. She needs counseling for her issue. It is pretty common, especially among women.
The way you described her I would swear it was my mil if she weren't already dead. She will love you regardless of whether you give her money but she will bust your chops. Just be firm and continue to give her love but not your paycheck. She is sick but she is your mother. Good luck.