Meet my standards? Haha, I've been dating and living with an incredibly considerate, caring, sweet guy for over a year now. They are rare to find, I'm just lucky I found one. Most guys (ones myself, family and friends have met or dated anyway) are insensitive, inconsiderate, anti commitment douchebags. Don't get me wrong, so are most females, so I guess decent human beings in general are rare, but you're wrong, they are rare.
though just because the people around you have dated douchebags, it doesn't mean "most guys" are. like, do you honestly believe what you have just said? its pretty vile.
that's like me saying "most girls are sluts". stupid right?
it only means your friends and family have terrible taste in man and/or have standards that are too unrealistic.
but I will say its rare for someone to have all the package.
My opinion is based on personal past experiences and the personal experiences of those around me. Do I know some women who have decent boyfriends/husbands? Sure I do. Did they have to date several assholes before actually finding said decent guys? Yes. So for everyone one decent guy I know, I know another 10 douchebag guys. So yes, in my opinion, MOST, not ALL, guys are douchebags, and finding a decent one is rare! Okay? Jesus.
What's it like in canada? I've always wanted to go there, it snows there :( I live in SA ans its incredibly hot and dirty and crime ridden, the cities anyway. We have some beautiful wildlife and nature reserves but its expensive to see them. I wish I lived in America or Canada, where it snowed and people were decent.
the place is of balance. very multicultural, there is a nice mix of all races. so I would say most of us are very accepting.
in Canada, our weather is a love hate relationship. when it gets too cold, we cant wait for summer.
when it gets too hot we cant wait for the cool seasons.
though I for one like the variety.
and of course everyone is generally kind in here. most of us anyways.
Are most sensitive, caring, affectionate guys like this?
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Rare? Nah. There is plenty. They probably just don't meet your standards.
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Meet my standards? Haha, I've been dating and living with an incredibly considerate, caring, sweet guy for over a year now. They are rare to find, I'm just lucky I found one. Most guys (ones myself, family and friends have met or dated anyway) are insensitive, inconsiderate, anti commitment douchebags. Don't get me wrong, so are most females, so I guess decent human beings in general are rare, but you're wrong, they are rare.
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I am truly happy for both of you. that's great.
though just because the people around you have dated douchebags, it doesn't mean "most guys" are. like, do you honestly believe what you have just said? its pretty vile.
that's like me saying "most girls are sluts". stupid right?
it only means your friends and family have terrible taste in man and/or have standards that are too unrealistic.
but I will say its rare for someone to have all the package.
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My opinion is based on personal past experiences and the personal experiences of those around me. Do I know some women who have decent boyfriends/husbands? Sure I do. Did they have to date several assholes before actually finding said decent guys? Yes. So for everyone one decent guy I know, I know another 10 douchebag guys. So yes, in my opinion, MOST, not ALL, guys are douchebags, and finding a decent one is rare! Okay? Jesus.
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Well maybe its because i live in Canada as to why I disagree with you.
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What's it like in canada? I've always wanted to go there, it snows there :( I live in SA ans its incredibly hot and dirty and crime ridden, the cities anyway. We have some beautiful wildlife and nature reserves but its expensive to see them. I wish I lived in America or Canada, where it snowed and people were decent.
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the place is of balance. very multicultural, there is a nice mix of all races. so I would say most of us are very accepting.
in Canada, our weather is a love hate relationship. when it gets too cold, we cant wait for summer.
when it gets too hot we cant wait for the cool seasons.
though I for one like the variety.
and of course everyone is generally kind in here. most of us anyways.