"The intentions for overlooking a nice guy varies, but to me it appears that women find kindness to be creepy. The only reason that I believe that this poll even exists is because of the poor decisions of some women and their amazing ability to overlook their male best friend as a potential spouse."
Exactly, and this is the truth, 100%. I had the best guy friend ever, was always awesome and very supportive of me. We had a great time and whenever I experienced a break-up he was always there with a box of tissues and a smile, a true gentleman. He was such a sweet guy, women thought he was creepy because of it, though. Even some insecure men couldn't stand him. Fuck, I had a huge problem with dating the "popular" guys... He seemed perfect, he had a job, a car, loved kids, etc. he was everything that women said that they wanted from a man but they never wanted him as more than a friend.
Then I realized that the pool of alpha-males that have everything that my best friend had is pretty shallow, so I married my best friend, fuck all that. It's working out pretty well so far.
From that anecdote, I can infer that you are an amazing girl. I'm glad that marriage is working out will with with you and your husband. Reading that story of yours actually gave me hope in humanity. It makes my heart happy knowing that women like you exist in this world.
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"The intentions for overlooking a nice guy varies, but to me it appears that women find kindness to be creepy. The only reason that I believe that this poll even exists is because of the poor decisions of some women and their amazing ability to overlook their male best friend as a potential spouse."
Exactly, and this is the truth, 100%. I had the best guy friend ever, was always awesome and very supportive of me. We had a great time and whenever I experienced a break-up he was always there with a box of tissues and a smile, a true gentleman. He was such a sweet guy, women thought he was creepy because of it, though. Even some insecure men couldn't stand him. Fuck, I had a huge problem with dating the "popular" guys... He seemed perfect, he had a job, a car, loved kids, etc. he was everything that women said that they wanted from a man but they never wanted him as more than a friend.
Then I realized that the pool of alpha-males that have everything that my best friend had is pretty shallow, so I married my best friend, fuck all that. It's working out pretty well so far.
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From that anecdote, I can infer that you are an amazing girl. I'm glad that marriage is working out will with with you and your husband. Reading that story of yours actually gave me hope in humanity. It makes my heart happy knowing that women like you exist in this world.