I have quite a bit of friends that meet nothing but un-trustworthy men though. But that's mainly because that the men that go after them only want sex, and the women oblige by that thinking that he will want a relationship AFTER they have sex, or that their sex talk or over-confident demeanor is merely a mask for a sweet, sensitive guy who just has a lot of problems. If I had a dollar for every female I have heard say "I can change him, I think I'll be the one to change him!", I'd be able to pay them the child support that their baby daddies won't pay, seriously.
Women who have little to no respect for themselves rarely ever attract trustworthy men that have respect for women. Some exceptions abound, but as a general rule it remains true. Then those women get screwed over and start on the whole "Chivalry is dead, there are no good men left in the world, good men are so hard to find" and as a cycle, they become more negative each time and just drive away good guys that would do them well because good guys don't want to be with women that feel that they are un-trustworthy douches from the get-go unless they are a bit desperate or really see something in that woman.
A lot of these women let their emotions get a hold of them and go into dating looking for someone that can provide them with a Holly-wood worthy romance, rather than a stable, loving relationship. They consider good guys boring and lame, they want their blood to boil in his presence, they want drama, romance, excitement, they want a challenge. Unfortunately, some women don't understand that what you want and what you need are two seperate things, not until they are single with a baby or in their 30's and single =/ Besides, women can be just as untrustworthy as men...
So basically, a female's response to the poll is based on her own experiences, and those experiences are the result of simply bad choices. You pick the bad boy, you get the bad boy.
Is a man truelly not trustworthy when they tell themselves to be? This site has a lot of kids, and some think it's "cool" to be seen as the mysterious unfaithful one. Not to mention, some of the votes could be from people that dislike men, and in their dislike of men, voted as one in the "unfaithful" options.
Yes, there are a lot of unfaithful men, same as women, but a lot of them aren't, sadly those are the ones not given that much of a chance.
Granted, a male can TOO have bad experiences with other males. I know many guys that have much more in the way of female friends then they do with male friends, so when they DO interact with males on a more interpersonal level and the male does prove to be untrustworthy, it can leave quite an impression.
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Most of the men that I know are trustworthy.
I have quite a bit of friends that meet nothing but un-trustworthy men though. But that's mainly because that the men that go after them only want sex, and the women oblige by that thinking that he will want a relationship AFTER they have sex, or that their sex talk or over-confident demeanor is merely a mask for a sweet, sensitive guy who just has a lot of problems. If I had a dollar for every female I have heard say "I can change him, I think I'll be the one to change him!", I'd be able to pay them the child support that their baby daddies won't pay, seriously.
Women who have little to no respect for themselves rarely ever attract trustworthy men that have respect for women. Some exceptions abound, but as a general rule it remains true. Then those women get screwed over and start on the whole "Chivalry is dead, there are no good men left in the world, good men are so hard to find" and as a cycle, they become more negative each time and just drive away good guys that would do them well because good guys don't want to be with women that feel that they are un-trustworthy douches from the get-go unless they are a bit desperate or really see something in that woman.
A lot of these women let their emotions get a hold of them and go into dating looking for someone that can provide them with a Holly-wood worthy romance, rather than a stable, loving relationship. They consider good guys boring and lame, they want their blood to boil in his presence, they want drama, romance, excitement, they want a challenge. Unfortunately, some women don't understand that what you want and what you need are two seperate things, not until they are single with a baby or in their 30's and single =/ Besides, women can be just as untrustworthy as men...
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So basically, a female's response to the poll is based on her own experiences, and those experiences are the result of simply bad choices. You pick the bad boy, you get the bad boy.
What about the males who voted "not trustworthy"?
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There are many reasons for that.
Is a man truelly not trustworthy when they tell themselves to be? This site has a lot of kids, and some think it's "cool" to be seen as the mysterious unfaithful one. Not to mention, some of the votes could be from people that dislike men, and in their dislike of men, voted as one in the "unfaithful" options.
Yes, there are a lot of unfaithful men, same as women, but a lot of them aren't, sadly those are the ones not given that much of a chance.
I'm not a male, so I wouldn't know.
Granted, a male can TOO have bad experiences with other males. I know many guys that have much more in the way of female friends then they do with male friends, so when they DO interact with males on a more interpersonal level and the male does prove to be untrustworthy, it can leave quite an impression.
I don't think I could've said it any better than this.