Are men natural givers?

90% of food came from the gatherers, mostly because the old people, children and women would do that but even then we still provide more. But really it depends on the invidual and some people just aren't as in touch with their instics should we say.

I tried hard for the two years my relationship lasted. I always showed and told her how much I loved her. I always tried to surprise her with gifts. I always stayed polite. Always tried to make her laugh, put her happiness before mine and anyone else. When we would argue, I never resorted to just walk away or yell or call names. I would have given her the moon if that's what she wanted. When she did do the same back for me, I really appreciated and loved it and wish I could have more. I don't know if men in general are natural givers but I think I am one that is a giver and I doubt it will change. Oh and I just read the comments above.. her pleausre always came first!

I'm not sure if I can agree coz I know a lot of single moms and one gets 5 bucks a week off the father. Where is his desire to give / provide?

Some give nothing!!

I think a lot of men are providers not so much to "give" but for their own pride.

They try hard in the beginning because they want sex and they know they have to put in at least some work to get it.

People's motives are largely selfish, and that's a fact.

Give too much and the girl loses respect. Same if the girl gives too much. The relationship has to built up slowly with ever large amounts of giving from both sides. If it gets skewed either way...that's the end of the relationship...and this doesn't just apply to non-platonic relationships

Seducers don't need to buy a girl's love. That's something for the infamous "Mr. Nice Guy" you know, the one who finishes last.

whoa...human dna is 1% away from a dolphins....dont you mean a chimpanzee

oh yeah, men are givers, they sure are willing to give their meat away to any available vagina.

*persuing

Men are natural givers.

OF COCK.

They aren't giving their time, money and flowers for the sake of being generous. There's an ulterior motive behind it surely?

we come out of girls vagina's. fuck u. girls and go to sperm bnks

Also, there's sooooo many men that have kids and don't take care of them. How often do you see a mother that abandons her kids vs. a father?? There's a staggering amount more of single mothers raising kids alone than single fathers. There's tons of men in trouble and in jail for not paying child support, but that's not true for women. Yes, there's some, but nowhere near even a fraction of the amount of men. So what's up with that? Kinda blows the theory out of the water.

Don't get me wrong, there's plenty of decent men around, but I think there's far more scumbags. Even decent men are largely selfish in many ways. My husband is a decent guy, always works and provides. But he tends to only do "nice" things or anything remotely thoughtful when he wants something or when he thinks I'm mad at him. In our whole marriage, I can't think of more than a few totally random nice thoughtful things he's done. He's also quite inconsiderate in many ways, which I can overlook because it's really "typical male behavior" (messy, etc) "Giving" is just not how guys think for the most part.

Lastnite, I just came across a very good answer to this question. I recieved my Cosmopolitan magazine in the mail, and while looking through it at both the ads and the articles, and comparing them to, say, my husband's Maxim magazine, the answer is obvious.....<BR><BR>Cosmo has articles on decoding emotions in your man, making your man happy, giving him better sex, fun things to do with him. Ads include mens colognes and clothes, psychics to tell you how to make him come back. Romance stories. <BR><BR>Maxim....articles on how to pick up a chick. No articles on how to make sex better for her, nothing on improving your relationship. No, but there's articles on how to get away with cheating. Articles on how to shut her up, not how to figure out what's wrong or improve anything. No ads for thoughtful gifts for her, the only "gifts" really are sex aids/toys and lingerie (selfish gifts-they're not really for her, they're for him to enjoy mostly). No Q&amp;A section like in Cosmo, where women ask questions relating to improving their lives or figuring out relationships, no, the questions are about farts and explosions and bar tricks to get chicks in bed.<BR><BR>The answer is obvious. Of course, everyone is different but overall I think it's pretty obvious.

Not always, depends on the person. This is just generalizing

The person above sounds like a man hater but he/she almost has a point.

It goes like this. At first we probably fall for the same same lovey dovey you women do. "She has a cute laugh, she's beautiful ..." so on so on. We usually want nothing more than to have that person as our girl friend or sometimes wife.

Once we've got you as a girlfriend or whatever, it turns sexual faster than you can say "wth?!". from this point on we are driven by our member down below.

Once we get sex, then comes the fork in the road. either she's just good for having fun(read:sex) with, or she becomes something we feel this stupid urge to protect and or provide for (read:give) ;-).

now let's go back to the beginning. there are two types of guys, those who want to 'score' and those who genuinely want a partner. It's almost predictable which road they'll take at the fork.

so not Everyman is the same, so not every is a giver. It also depends on the relationship, and of-course you. all I can guarantee is that if your man decides not to be a giver... you can't change him.

PS: when we are having sex the last thing we are thinking about is giving, it's usually a primal domination thing going on, if anything were taking you, we enjoy your sounds of pleasure because it's like your submitting to our dominance.

honesty, never simple, always shocking.