Are men in shape better lovers?

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Wondering what women think obviously there are going to be men who are extremely fit who are terrible and the inverse but Im looking at averages here so don't comment it just depends on the guy think statistically positive correlation=as fitness goes up sexual capability goes up, or negative correlation their inversely proportional or no correlation Not a line at all if plotted on x and y cordinate just random dots everywhere

Positively correlated 184
Negatively correlates 21
No correlation 108
I don't understand the choices 62
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  • NeuroNeptunian
    12 years ago

    Yes.

    I have had sex with men that are physically fit and men that are not so fit, and overall, men that are physically fit are PROVEN to have more stamina, be able to last longer and are, in general, just better as far as physical performance goes - I can personally attest to that.

    But keep in mind, sex is more than just dick and stamina, I have known physically fit men that have no technique and just fuck like wind-up toys. Not fun. Even less fun is a man that is not physically fit struggling to maintain performance. Awkward.

    The quality of the penis may be great and all, but sex involves more than just a penis unless you're using a dildo. To say that it's all about the quality of the dick is like saying that giving the best sword to some random jackass will suddenly make him the best swordfighter, you know?

    So yes, physical fitness is definitely important, not the deciding factor, but very important. Bear in mind, the measure of physical fitness is PERFORMANCE and PHYSICAL CAPABILITY, not simply the shape of one's body.

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  • RickAstley
    12 years ago

    From past experiences my numerous string of exotic Philopeno lovers have all been amazing in the bedroom able to make me orgasm time and time again. Their cold, clamy hands touching my bare skin just makes me shiver. It's such a shame I had to return them back to their graveyard.

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    • Jweezee
      12 years ago | pl

      I know right. You never wanna give them up, never wanna let them down, never wanna run around and desert them, never wanna make them cry, never wanna say goodbye.

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      • Alexandra101
        12 years ago

        You sir , are amazing.

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      • mtg710
        12 years ago

        I propose a possible explanation for such behaviour - Perhaps they've known each other for so long, his heart was aching, but he was too shy to say it. Inside, they both knew what'd been going on.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      Regardless of trolling, Filipino.

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  • aussiewolf
    12 years ago

    the way a guy uses his penis has nothing to do with the shape of his body.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      your a dude though so unless you are gay you don't know so why comment on a poll directed at women

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      • aussiewolf
        12 years ago

        i commented on a poll directed at women because i am a woman... weird huh.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          12 years ago

          My bad I assumed based on the name and on previous comments of yours that u were a man

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          • aussiewolf
            12 years ago

            yeah most people make that assumption even though i have mentioned numerous times that i have a husband... and a vagina.

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  • felixmontana
    11 years ago

    after loosing some pounds and hiting the gym I feel I can thrust faster, change positiones more smoothly and have more stamina, so I based on personal experience Id say yes!!!

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  • MsMaDdam
    11 years ago

    much better. No obesed guys for me. I'm in shape so should he.

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  • GeorgiaRain
    11 years ago

    THEY MAKE ME A BETTER LOVER.THATS WHY THEY ARE BETTER LOVERS.:p

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  • dongwhan
    11 years ago

    Through out history and while I dont know the future, I would imagine in post apocalytic times,smart women did in the past and probably would in the near future choose a man with a little girth. A pot belly has always until resently been a sign of proserity.So to answer your question, when the shit hits the fan and the grocery store shelves are empty, those skinny,fit guys are all gonna starve to death in a couple weeks and the unfit fat guys are gonna be all thats left for you to repopulate the earth with

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    • Satchmo
      11 years ago

      Girth being the only relevant thing that you said

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  • RigdensDad
    11 years ago

    sex is bad

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  • AusDingo
    12 years ago

    To be fair, I'm a straight dude, and I find a six-pack sexy. I think it's a fair bit in your mind in addition to their prowess.

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  • Darkoil
    12 years ago

    I'm a guy and I'm a lot better in the bedroom now I am a lot fitter than I used to be, a good sex session is more exerting than running 10 km at a fast pace.

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  • thinkingaboutit
    12 years ago

    what your talking about is causation, not correlation. By better your implying longer, and therefor better. There may be correlation, but it really has all to do with the individual. Do I think a really fat guy is great in the sack? No b/c sex is can be physically demanding (if your doing it right). Do I think the fittest guys as the gym are great in the sack? No because sex has much to do with individual personality, regardless of stamina.

    some correlation.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Actually I'm not talking about causation. I know the difference. His athletic ability might not be the cause of him being better. There could be something else at play such as the fact that a guy that is in good shape gets laid more has more experience and this makes him better. Also the sex being longer doesn't mean it's better if the sex last an hour and the girl doesn't even come close to orgasming then I'm pretty sure she would prefer a 10 minute romp where she orgasms once or multiple times

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    A 1/3 of the people don't understand the choices are they unclear or are people idiotic

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Women are going to be, on the whole, be more attracted to men who are in better shape. Hence the sexual experience for them will be better, leading them to think of the more in shape man as a better lover.

    Also OP I voted for not understanding the choices, I did understand them, but you could have vastly simplified it to :

    I like men in shape

    I like men out of shape

    I dont care as long as he has a big ol swinging salami stick.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Actually i couldn't have simplified it I had something very specific in my mind when posting this and asking if women like men in shape is not at all what I wanted to know

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  • mousie
    12 years ago

    Nope!! :D I had a boyfriend who was a liiiiiiil chubby but he was very hot and good-looking nonetheless. He was great in bed ;) lotsa energy, lotsa pleasin'. Good guy! People can perform just fine if they're a little out of shape! Well, I don't know so much about obese peepz but others, sure!

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  • myownopinions
    12 years ago

    I changed my mind. After reading the comments, please rescind 1 vote of no correlation and place it under positive correlation instead. I guess there is some slight correlation, though probably under .5

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  • Avant-Garde
    12 years ago

    I've never been in a relationship, so it's impossible for me to pick a proper answer based on a nonexistent experience.

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    • Saycheese
      12 years ago

      Same here, the thing is though all of my past crushes except one weren't all that muscular.

      Some reason something in my mind triggers when I see a rather physically fit guy that he was/is the popular asshole (BIG TURN-OFF)... and the thing is that's not always the case though.

      The one that was fit that I had a crush on he was actually sweet and gentle with the girls he was with... but he went for bitches after his first sweet girlfriend had broken up with him. I guess that really got to him. Haven't talked to him for a long while.

      But anyways enough of my rambling... I feel in the same boat as you... but oh well it'll happen some point with the right person. Patients is a virtue and new experiences are fun.

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      • Saycheese
        12 years ago

        whoops... never can spell.
        *patience

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    • NeuroNeptunian
      12 years ago

      I was kind of wild in high school. I have no excuse.

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