Both of you! ItDuz wrote something about discrimination being a thing of the past, so mainly her I guess - unless you share that erroneous view? Your original post just makes me sad, now the rage has subsided.
Oh, I thought ItDuz was female - NOT THAT IT MATTERS.
Let me make this easier for you to understand - gender roles probably WERE necessary to get us to where we are now - but, just like religion, they are a lie that is no longer required. Going back is never the way forward - you're just scared of the truth about yourself.
Your real problem is that YOU feel inferior to males - and blame this on the fact that you are female.
You admire male traits, but feel that you do not possess them - yet rather than admit that to yourself or actually try to be and act 'like a man', you take the easy route and believe all the gender bullshit, and blame it all on the fact that you have a pair of tits and a womb.
I could be wrong, of course - it may be that you feel that you personally are as good as men, and it's just all the other women who are inferior - PLEASE let me know if this is the case!
I'll probably write more on the main thread - wouldn't want others to miss out ;)
I actually feel that I'm not girly (and I don't have to try too hard), but I can't help myself from sometimes acting like a girl because I AM one and I find that annoying. You could say that I not necessarily hate women, but I hate the general female traits. It would make no sense for me not to like women that don't act like women just because their body is this and that way.
I don't think I'm quite as good as men, but I do think the girlier someone acts the worse they are.
Haha, that's so funny! Try being a man sometime - believe me, if you'd grown up with people thinking you were male, you'd have learnt to suppress the urges to "sometimes act like a girl" (e.g. crying, displaying any hint of femininity) or else face ridicule, disapproval, and even beatings.
Do you get it yet?? Men could be, would be, SHOULD be just as 'girly' (i.e. feminine) as women, and women just as 'manly' (masculine) as men! It's all social conditioning, and it started when you were a baby, being held or fed differently, or allowed to cry for longer before being comforted - and then given different toys to play with, and encouraged or discouraged in different ways. It's a constant stream of conditioning! So women typically ARE different to men, but only as a result of the way they are treated and expected to behave. (BTW, I'm deliberately taking an extreme view here to prove my point and counterbalance YOUR extreme view...)
The way you write seems more masculine than feminine to me - take that as a compliment, if you like! But please, PLEASE consider changing your views and cease hating your gender - or the "general female traits" - we all need to be a bit feminine from time to time. I thought I understood it all (and like ItDuz I thought sexism wasn't a big deal any more), until I met a woman who made me think again... I married her.
Are men better than women or is it the other way 'round?
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Both of you! ItDuz wrote something about discrimination being a thing of the past, so mainly her I guess - unless you share that erroneous view? Your original post just makes me sad, now the rage has subsided.
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You got me confused because ItDuz is a guy. And I'm not.
Whatever, the more discrimination the better. Let's see if we can get things back to what they were before feminism.
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Oh, I thought ItDuz was female - NOT THAT IT MATTERS.
Let me make this easier for you to understand - gender roles probably WERE necessary to get us to where we are now - but, just like religion, they are a lie that is no longer required. Going back is never the way forward - you're just scared of the truth about yourself.
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Lol, what truth about myself?
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Your real problem is that YOU feel inferior to males - and blame this on the fact that you are female.
You admire male traits, but feel that you do not possess them - yet rather than admit that to yourself or actually try to be and act 'like a man', you take the easy route and believe all the gender bullshit, and blame it all on the fact that you have a pair of tits and a womb.
I could be wrong, of course - it may be that you feel that you personally are as good as men, and it's just all the other women who are inferior - PLEASE let me know if this is the case!
I'll probably write more on the main thread - wouldn't want others to miss out ;)
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Lol, no.
I actually feel that I'm not girly (and I don't have to try too hard), but I can't help myself from sometimes acting like a girl because I AM one and I find that annoying. You could say that I not necessarily hate women, but I hate the general female traits. It would make no sense for me not to like women that don't act like women just because their body is this and that way.
I don't think I'm quite as good as men, but I do think the girlier someone acts the worse they are.
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Haha, that's so funny! Try being a man sometime - believe me, if you'd grown up with people thinking you were male, you'd have learnt to suppress the urges to "sometimes act like a girl" (e.g. crying, displaying any hint of femininity) or else face ridicule, disapproval, and even beatings.
Do you get it yet?? Men could be, would be, SHOULD be just as 'girly' (i.e. feminine) as women, and women just as 'manly' (masculine) as men! It's all social conditioning, and it started when you were a baby, being held or fed differently, or allowed to cry for longer before being comforted - and then given different toys to play with, and encouraged or discouraged in different ways. It's a constant stream of conditioning! So women typically ARE different to men, but only as a result of the way they are treated and expected to behave. (BTW, I'm deliberately taking an extreme view here to prove my point and counterbalance YOUR extreme view...)
The way you write seems more masculine than feminine to me - take that as a compliment, if you like! But please, PLEASE consider changing your views and cease hating your gender - or the "general female traits" - we all need to be a bit feminine from time to time. I thought I understood it all (and like ItDuz I thought sexism wasn't a big deal any more), until I met a woman who made me think again... I married her.