Are all lesbians virgins?

It's obvious that bi sexual girls arnt virgins as at some point they would have had sex with a guy, thus being penetrated and breaking the hymen. I'm curious to know if the naturally born lesbians remain a virgin considering they never come in contact with a cock?

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  • Ellenna

    Why on earth is anyone worrying about hymens in this day and age? Some women are born without them and some lose them without even knowing it without ever having any form of sex. WHY DOES ANYONE CARE?

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    • I was taught that we are born with a hymen and the obvious way to loose/break your virginity is by having sex by pentration. Automatically you think of the penis doing that..No?

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      • RoyRogers

        That is a very good question and debatable. It depends how you define virginity. If its penetration then yes. If we are counting strap ons though or fingering then maybe not. Some also consider a girl giving a man a blow job not losing their virginity. In my eyes anything that is a sexual act means you are no longer a virgin.

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        • Ahh yeah , I feel virginity is when one has never had sex before and it involves breaking the hymen or if there isn't one, its just the act of having sexual intercourse. Oral is just a sexual act imo and just because a girl either goes down on another female or gives a blow job, doesn't make her not a virgin anymore. Its just a stepping stone towards loosing your virginity.

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          • RoyRogers

            you contradict yourself in this passage. You said if they have sexual intercourse it means they lost their virginity and you say oral is a sexual act. Which means that you consider oral losing your virginity. So in other words if two females do oral, they lose their virginity. Also you can break your hymen without having sex, like Horse back riding does apparently.

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            • No no I clearly stated that oral is in fact a sexual act its NOT sexual intercourse. Obviously this is a big difference. To clarify, I basically feel that a girl can take part in any sexual acts such as blow jobs, oral or even anal but if she doesn't have vagina sex where the hymen may or may not be in tact, she still remains a virgin.

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  • Th3on1y0n3

    30 yr old lesbian here... I have never been with a guy and the few friends I have that can say the same and I half ass joke about being virgins but reality is we have all had sex with women... So we're not virgins. As far as what is sex. That all depends on who you ask but we're not in high school anymore so it's not like we have a first date, then. We kiss on the 2nd, touch on third finger bang on the 4th date etc... If we're at a place that were laying down kissing touching peeling clothing off each other we're going to have sex, sometimes it's just oral sometimes it's everything except oral, sometimes it's involving toys etc. li basically judge it this way... If we get naked and do things to each other with the intent of getting the other off that's sex. And for those of us who have only been with women we call it being a gold star lesbian not a virgin.

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    • Thanks for this informative response, what do u think about the above comment? :O

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  • peterrabbyt3

    Who cares?

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    • I didn't say anyone cares?

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  • SkullsNRoses

    You can be bi-sexual and still be a virgin. Bi-sexual is just attraction to both sexes, you don't necessarily have to have sex with someone to be attracted to them.

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    • Yes i know that, I guess I should have said that bi- sexuals will in time probably have sex with a guy, thus loosing their V plates.

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  • misslonglegs

    We do get penetrated by dildos strap on cock .which are usually bigger than the average cock

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    • GetALifeAndStopJackingIt

      What do you mean "we"? You're an 80 year old man pretending to be a girl on the internet. Get lost you ugly piece of shit loser.

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      • misslonglegs

        Will u please stop saying to me I'm 80 yrs old I'm 18 female what do I need to do to prove it I have never heard son many perverted wankers on this site

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        • GetALifeAndStopJackingIt

          "What do I need to do to prove it"?

          How about a simple pic of you (including your face) holding a piece of paper that says something like "hi IIN", or your username with the date.

          Should be pretty easy if that's actually you.

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  • Orphan

    What does a penis have to do with losing your virginity? I've had sex for 7 years before my hymen accidently broke.

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  • SonjaMcDonell

    Oh no, after the first time with a girl, I don't know one, who was still virgin. I lost my virginity in the 6th class with Eveline from the parallel class. We said our hymens bye bye forever with our tongues at a saturday after the school, when her parents worked.

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  • st_jimmy88

    There is so much sweeping generalization in this question, it's just absurd. Not every bisexual person will end up having sex with the opposite sex, and not every lesbian will go their entire lives without having sex with a guy. As a matter of fact, the majority of lesbians I know had at least one male sex partner at some point in their lives.

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  • maskofsanity

    Why does it matter to you?

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  • jeannie1993

    yes they are virgins.
    all lesbians suffer from penis envy which is why they display such a bad attitude towards Men, you don't hear gay Men bad mouthing Women because they don't feel like they are missing out on something.
    it must be really frustrating for a lesbian knowing she can't fuck her partner, which probably explains why lesbians are by far the most abusive people in society, and even though Men are the more violent species, there's actually four times more incidents of domestic violence in lesbian relationships than there is in gay Men relationships.
    so to recap, yes they are virgins and they know it, and it obviously pisses them off.

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    • Orphan

      Uh no, straight chick's come to me because I don't have a penis.

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    • Ellenna

      I can't find one accurate statement in your entire post and that has to be a record even for IIN

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      • jeannie1993

        are you sure that you've never heard lesbians making disparaging remarks about Men?,ahum, i think you may be being less than entirely honest.

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        • Ellenna

          Of course I have but that doesn't mean all Lesbians hate men!

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          • jeannie1993

            who said all?, it's a stereotype for good reason, all stereotypes are stereotypes for good reason, it's because there's more than an element of truth in them.

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  • charli.m

    Because all that matters is that cock is involved...

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