I've known people who cheated in the past and then grew up and knew 100% that they will NEVER do it again (myself included). And then there are tbe people who go decades never cheating or thinking they would then they get bored in their long term marriage and have an affair. People change. You can't judge people just like that at face value, it's more complicated than that. I would never dismiss someone as a friend because they once cheated. Now if they are a total douche who still cheats and has no regrets/brags about it then they probably have a shitty personality anyways and wouldn't be worth being your friend. But someone who did it in the past probably learned from tbe experience (at least hopefully they did) and don't need your judgement.
I agree. It's one thing to accidentally flirt or cheat a few times in your life vs actively or repetitively trying to hook up with someone else time and time again. Some learn from the mistake and do their best to make sure they don't hurt anyone again
Are all cheaters bad people? Should you associate with them?
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I've known people who cheated in the past and then grew up and knew 100% that they will NEVER do it again (myself included). And then there are tbe people who go decades never cheating or thinking they would then they get bored in their long term marriage and have an affair. People change. You can't judge people just like that at face value, it's more complicated than that. I would never dismiss someone as a friend because they once cheated. Now if they are a total douche who still cheats and has no regrets/brags about it then they probably have a shitty personality anyways and wouldn't be worth being your friend. But someone who did it in the past probably learned from tbe experience (at least hopefully they did) and don't need your judgement.
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I agree. It's one thing to accidentally flirt or cheat a few times in your life vs actively or repetitively trying to hook up with someone else time and time again. Some learn from the mistake and do their best to make sure they don't hurt anyone again