Anyone else feel guilty when...
You fantasize about friends or acquaintances? I know fantasizing in general is normal, but I sometimes feel disgusted with myself when I imagine someone I know in real life. Even if it gets the job done right!
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You fantasize about friends or acquaintances? I know fantasizing in general is normal, but I sometimes feel disgusted with myself when I imagine someone I know in real life. Even if it gets the job done right!
I sometimes fantasize about some colleagues. Once, at work, I was a bit bored and went to the toilet to whack one off thinking about the colleague that sits right next to me (I've only ever masturbated at work twice).
I fantasize about almost every woman I know that I find attractive.
I don't feel guilty at all.
Feel no guilt in the fantasy. Now, be careful who the fantasy becomes reality with. Keep in mind relations, don't damage any, and certainly not those of your friends, relatives, loved ones. And, keep in mind, until you are with a person for a long time, day in and day out, you REALLY don't know what they are like, so, could be a LOT worse than what you expected.
I only feel disgusted if it was someone I was emotionally involved with at some point and it ended up not working out. This is because it feels like I haven't properly moved on and to rely on something that failed just to get off doesn't feel very good. If there wasn't a history like that then I go full speed ahead, sometimes friends are pretty attractive.