Any point of living lonely?????is there??

Is there any point of living if you feel there is no one to share the good and bad that life brings?

Everyone seems to use me as a listener without thinking or even asking about how I feel. I feel useless to the world. My mum doesn't let me out so I'm stuck in the house with nothing to look forward to/

Is it normal for me to see no point in life because there is no one to confind in?

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  • PoisonFlowers

    I know how you feel.

    When my friends were going out and having fun together when I was in school, I wasn't allowed to go anywhere. Once, I lied just so that I could go up to the high street (a ten minute wlk from my house) with them. I got found out and my parents acted as though it was a huge deal. My friends though I was a sad case. Rightly so.

    I am now 18. I'm a little bit bitter at how my parents didn't afford me any independance at all and simply locked me up to "keep me safe." I took a walk with my dad a couple of months ago and my bitterness came out in the conversation somehow. I was saying how I am now socially retarded. I have to work much harder than everyone else because I have to catch up. I get anxious about anything social. I'm still lonely, but I'm determined that it won't always be that way.

    You know what, I think that you should have a talk with your mum. If your mum doesn't relent at all, then for your best interests, I think that you should rebel. Don't go over the top and destroy your house by inviting a million unknown people over or something stupid like that. Just get the hell outta there! Sure, she'll get mad at you, but you need to get out of there or this will dog your for life, seriously. Parents mean well most of the time, but as the other people have said, she seriously needs to step off and you need to tell her.

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  • juliaa

    I'm in the same situation. It is normal if you can't go out and people aren't there for you. But you gotta change all of this so you don't feel as lonely. Tell your mom to fuck off. You've a got a life and you deserve to live it.

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  • SyC0Pathik

    i sometime feel the same the whats the point of life part. all we do everyday is just exist for what? why? and without emotion stimulis its hard to get out of that mind set just tell your mom that your lonly and need more social interaction if she still doesn't allow you to get out more often then try talking to her more often it might work and you'll probaly feel better. theres a wise saying that goes like this: a soul living on the fringes of life withers. so try and get out as much as possible and live!!

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  • Avant-Garde

    How old are you?! You should be able to leave the house of your own free will.

    http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=YDUXE9-SS4s

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  • Cherrybombpieee

    Do i hear teenage angst

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  • kingofcarrotflowers

    I'm not lonley i have two cats. (sobs into keyboard)

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  • ucipher8

    i was starved for attention in high school. that carried on after high school and into my professional life which happened to have worked out in forms of comedic relief or empathic camaraderie. But let me tell you, when the day is over, i don't want to go out and drink or have fun.

    Cause I'm such a loner that if I'm not obligated to interact with you, id rather not (that is unless i really truly want to, which has proven to be quite difficult for me).

    To top that, I've been unemployed for about 5 months now, haven't left the house except for laundry and groceries. Maybe, the bank. Oh yeah, mom and dad is bankrolling me until i find a job.

    Im hopeless and I'm seriously much better off taken away in some tragic incident. if you can save yourself do it, or you'll end up just like me, selfish miserable and dreaming of things I'm never going to achieve.

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  • Thewomanizer

    sounds a little like me except I am allowed out of the house, the feeling of "loneliness' comes from within, so you need to get out and about and make some friends, though I personally wouldn't recommend that cause friends suck.

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  • Me_InABox

    get to know people, take a vecation from the internet

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  • You mom won't let you out at all? Ever? That's harsh. Try talking to a school counsellor & see if they can help.

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  • awatcher

    Talk to your mom and tell her you need to get out and do more things. If she is of no help talk to a dr. You are not alone in being this way or feeling this way. You are taking the first step to trying to get to know more ppl. Go to social groups like ning.com or yuku.com and find a small group of a like interest. Good luck. Also there is a site called samiratans.org that lets you talk to someone online when you feel this way. good luck.

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  • Bisjac

    How old are you? I think you should tell your mom to @#$%% off!!

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  • MeninBlack

    You got a fairly decent computer and a few bucks each month >?

    Start playing an online game like AION and you will not feel so lonely. Just don't exagerate.

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