Few people find it super appealing. It's more a matter of becoming comfortable with your partner (for both males and females) and realizing sexual needs still exist during that time. I mean, it's a bit silly to think you're going to have a long term relationship and not even attempt it or manage to avoid it the whole time. Why deny yourself, or her (she has needs too)? Try it, if it's worse than denying sex then ok, don't do it anymore. Or maybe you'll find it's not a big deal.
And you can also....
Do it in the shower
See if she would use a diva cup
Any other guys out there that feel like this....
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Few people find it super appealing. It's more a matter of becoming comfortable with your partner (for both males and females) and realizing sexual needs still exist during that time. I mean, it's a bit silly to think you're going to have a long term relationship and not even attempt it or manage to avoid it the whole time. Why deny yourself, or her (she has needs too)? Try it, if it's worse than denying sex then ok, don't do it anymore. Or maybe you'll find it's not a big deal.
And you can also....
Do it in the shower
See if she would use a diva cup