1WeirdGuy: There are some people who actually regret having children and feel miserable in that role. As well as many who are bad parents. Maybe it does happen but one should never just assume that "their mother instinct will kick in". If someone knows they dont want a child, its best they just dont. Some women (and men) do want children. I dont agree with Mini69 either, men aren't inferior (nor are women). We need to stop the "war between the genders" and actually care about each others as humans instead.
Of course some people regret it you have to make the best of it and its not all about you anymore once you have kids. The women I know that regret it usually have issues with drugs and chase the party lifestyle and also have to work ontop of being a mother. Often times since their offspring was from a hook up at some party the father is not in the picture bringing stability. Even these girls would often prefer not working.
I do agree though not everyone should have kids. Some people are too immature and selfish. Others arent capable.
People should have the right not to take choices they think they will regret later. That includes having a kid when it doesn't seem/feel right. Life quality matters for everyone. And overall I think those who are motivated in the first place are the most likely to actually be good parents.
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1WeirdGuy: There are some people who actually regret having children and feel miserable in that role. As well as many who are bad parents. Maybe it does happen but one should never just assume that "their mother instinct will kick in". If someone knows they dont want a child, its best they just dont. Some women (and men) do want children. I dont agree with Mini69 either, men aren't inferior (nor are women). We need to stop the "war between the genders" and actually care about each others as humans instead.
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Of course some people regret it you have to make the best of it and its not all about you anymore once you have kids. The women I know that regret it usually have issues with drugs and chase the party lifestyle and also have to work ontop of being a mother. Often times since their offspring was from a hook up at some party the father is not in the picture bringing stability. Even these girls would often prefer not working.
I do agree though not everyone should have kids. Some people are too immature and selfish. Others arent capable.
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People should have the right not to take choices they think they will regret later. That includes having a kid when it doesn't seem/feel right. Life quality matters for everyone. And overall I think those who are motivated in the first place are the most likely to actually be good parents.