I bet feminists have conflict with themselves. They want to believe this nonsense of strong independent woman with a beta male husband. But I bet after they have a new born baby their mother instincts kick in and they want to stay home and mother their babies. But theyre strong independent women they have to pay $350+ a week to give it to a baby sitter so they can go to work everyday. Then they still have to come home and clean their house and cook. Must really suck. I bet many of them want to stay home and mother their young children but they somehow think its degrading. But their motherly instincts actually want it.
1WeirdGuy: There are some people who actually regret having children and feel miserable in that role. As well as many who are bad parents. Maybe it does happen but one should never just assume that "their mother instinct will kick in". If someone knows they dont want a child, its best they just dont. Some women (and men) do want children. I dont agree with Mini69 either, men aren't inferior (nor are women). We need to stop the "war between the genders" and actually care about each others as humans instead.
Of course some people regret it you have to make the best of it and its not all about you anymore once you have kids. The women I know that regret it usually have issues with drugs and chase the party lifestyle and also have to work ontop of being a mother. Often times since their offspring was from a hook up at some party the father is not in the picture bringing stability. Even these girls would often prefer not working.
I do agree though not everyone should have kids. Some people are too immature and selfish. Others arent capable.
People should have the right not to take choices they think they will regret later. That includes having a kid when it doesn't seem/feel right. Life quality matters for everyone. And overall I think those who are motivated in the first place are the most likely to actually be good parents.
Honestly I bet most are miserable because they aren't attracted to their husbands. I know simp men like that and honestly they just aren't attractive. Frankly I don't know how anyone could find someone like that attractive, im sure some do but I bet the majority want an actual man and possibly even more traditional roles.
I guess everyone’s circumstances are different. I don’t have young children, but I do have a male who does all the housework, cooking, laundry, grocery shopping, etc.
Any female born after 1993 can't cook
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I bet feminists have conflict with themselves. They want to believe this nonsense of strong independent woman with a beta male husband. But I bet after they have a new born baby their mother instincts kick in and they want to stay home and mother their babies. But theyre strong independent women they have to pay $350+ a week to give it to a baby sitter so they can go to work everyday. Then they still have to come home and clean their house and cook. Must really suck. I bet many of them want to stay home and mother their young children but they somehow think its degrading. But their motherly instincts actually want it.
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1WeirdGuy: There are some people who actually regret having children and feel miserable in that role. As well as many who are bad parents. Maybe it does happen but one should never just assume that "their mother instinct will kick in". If someone knows they dont want a child, its best they just dont. Some women (and men) do want children. I dont agree with Mini69 either, men aren't inferior (nor are women). We need to stop the "war between the genders" and actually care about each others as humans instead.
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Of course some people regret it you have to make the best of it and its not all about you anymore once you have kids. The women I know that regret it usually have issues with drugs and chase the party lifestyle and also have to work ontop of being a mother. Often times since their offspring was from a hook up at some party the father is not in the picture bringing stability. Even these girls would often prefer not working.
I do agree though not everyone should have kids. Some people are too immature and selfish. Others arent capable.
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People should have the right not to take choices they think they will regret later. That includes having a kid when it doesn't seem/feel right. Life quality matters for everyone. And overall I think those who are motivated in the first place are the most likely to actually be good parents.
Honestly I bet most are miserable because they aren't attracted to their husbands. I know simp men like that and honestly they just aren't attractive. Frankly I don't know how anyone could find someone like that attractive, im sure some do but I bet the majority want an actual man and possibly even more traditional roles.
I guess everyone’s circumstances are different. I don’t have young children, but I do have a male who does all the housework, cooking, laundry, grocery shopping, etc.