I'm assuming here that everyone here is referring to 'antisocial' as being not sociable amongst people (introverted) and not the other commonly used definition where it means 'hostile to or disruptive of the established social order' (in which case I doubt antisocial behaviour will be perceived as 'cute').
And on that assumption, I'm saying that in girls it's cute but guys its creepy - based on real life experience.
But what I'd like to point out here is that (personally, I find that) in most cultural references like movies etc, the opposite seems to be the case. I mean is there a movie where the shy, introverted, antisocial (main character) guy doesn't get the girl? The antisocial guys are always being portrayed as mysterious, which always ends up turning the not-so-shy girls on. Thing is, wallflowers always stay wallflowers,however much I'd like to believe some extraordinary turn of events would make everyone else see exactly how interesting and attractive they may be.
I'm saying all of this as an 'antisocial', introverted wallflower (guy). People just don't pay attention to the quiet ones like the movies would have anyone believe. If you remain quiet, you won't be heard. And based on my shyness and the lack of any female attention, I'm saying that antisocial guys are creepy.
And as for antisocial girls, I reckon they have it better because as long as their not hideous and they have a good personality, They'll be hit on. This also goes back to the social convention that it's the guys that make the first move - again another reason why antisocial guys are perceived as creepy even though they like girls who like them. But don't quote me on that.
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I'm assuming here that everyone here is referring to 'antisocial' as being not sociable amongst people (introverted) and not the other commonly used definition where it means 'hostile to or disruptive of the established social order' (in which case I doubt antisocial behaviour will be perceived as 'cute').
And on that assumption, I'm saying that in girls it's cute but guys its creepy - based on real life experience.
But what I'd like to point out here is that (personally, I find that) in most cultural references like movies etc, the opposite seems to be the case. I mean is there a movie where the shy, introverted, antisocial (main character) guy doesn't get the girl? The antisocial guys are always being portrayed as mysterious, which always ends up turning the not-so-shy girls on. Thing is, wallflowers always stay wallflowers,however much I'd like to believe some extraordinary turn of events would make everyone else see exactly how interesting and attractive they may be.
I'm saying all of this as an 'antisocial', introverted wallflower (guy). People just don't pay attention to the quiet ones like the movies would have anyone believe. If you remain quiet, you won't be heard. And based on my shyness and the lack of any female attention, I'm saying that antisocial guys are creepy.
And as for antisocial girls, I reckon they have it better because as long as their not hideous and they have a good personality, They'll be hit on. This also goes back to the social convention that it's the guys that make the first move - again another reason why antisocial guys are perceived as creepy even though they like girls who like them. But don't quote me on that.