I am willing to move on from this without her apologising, but if she keeps bringing it up then I only think it's fair that it's done in a way that doesn't make me take all of the blame.
You've all given me me good ideas of how to handle a conversation about this if it comes up again. What I do plan to do is ask friends who were sober to be witnesses if it comes to needing to convince her she was at fault.
The one problem I might have with this strategy is that she's the type to become even more defensive if it seems like nobody is on her side. If all our friends are against her, it might make it even harder for her to behave in a way that I think is reasonable.
Anyway, thanks a lot guys. More comments as welcome as ever, of course :)
Another melodramatic teenage relationship story.
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Firstly, thanks all for agreeing with me.
I am willing to move on from this without her apologising, but if she keeps bringing it up then I only think it's fair that it's done in a way that doesn't make me take all of the blame.
You've all given me me good ideas of how to handle a conversation about this if it comes up again. What I do plan to do is ask friends who were sober to be witnesses if it comes to needing to convince her she was at fault.
The one problem I might have with this strategy is that she's the type to become even more defensive if it seems like nobody is on her side. If all our friends are against her, it might make it even harder for her to behave in a way that I think is reasonable.
Anyway, thanks a lot guys. More comments as welcome as ever, of course :)